ladies... your man comes home at 3 am... after you called him several times no answer. his buddy hops on the phone and says can he stay whats the big deal. he told you hed be home around midnight and wouldnt drink. its clear hes been drinking. he think proceeds to tell you what a shitty wife you are and how youre only there for the kids and a paycheck. you also apparently have him on a leash according to him. He then asks what business of it is yours where he is and when hell be home. hes now passed out and youre feeling like shit crying. what would you think/say/do?
So something my man would do! Sorry I know you posted this awhile back, but I found you are like stating my life in your own with ur husband!
oh and apparently somehow he thought he was gonna get some before passing out. i went down to tje couch to get away from him. his ass will be waking up in 2 hours with our 15 month old and he will not say one word to protest!
funny part after it all. he promised wed do something together today before work then says he got invited to go golfing. says i dont pay him attention and shit then does this
yeah apparently i embarrassed him. the buddy on the phone is recently divorced. im like keep acting like him bud and youll be following suit here soon
No no no. 🙅🏼🙅🏼🙅🏼 --- You are the mother of his children. By starting a family with you, his "party days" need to have come to a close. I'm all for having a good time, but a REAL MAN would never speak to the mother of his children like that. His friends should not be a priority; you should. He is definitely in the wrong, and you are definitely in the right. Being a parent and a grown up means saying if you're going to be home at a certain time, then you BE HOME. He needs to realize he has a family depending on him. Not just financially, but emotionally . ❤️
Honestly? No BS? I'd lock all the locks on the doors so he can't get in and then I leave and when he asks me where I am, all say everything he said to me the night before and see if he realizes anything.. But that's probably just pregnant me.
BUT THE REAL ME, would wait till he gets home and punch him..
if its his home I would pack my shit while he is pissy drunk and passed out... take the kids and leave...have his are thinking where tf did I go...and won't pick up his calla for as while... let him sit and think about the shit he just said...
Luckily things are a tad better but instead of going out he plays video games for hours a day