
This was an ad on Facebook. Seeing what a lot of people were saying in the comments I was wondering...do you think this is age appropriate? I'm just curious what the R&R ladies think.
@ skate I understand what you are saying.
As far as the outfit itself goes I just don't think the short is cute at all. I think it would be much cuter with just regular dark baby skinny jeans/jeggings and a different maroon top. I think the ripped jeans make the outfit look cheap and the short reminds me of a lampshade or something. The purse is cute but pointless. A small side purse with a skinny strap would be cute for her to carry some toys in.
@skate
I didn't single you out for having an opposing view point. I think it's fine if you think this outfit is cute, dress your kid however you want. I just find it very annoying when people say "I never said ____" when they literally just said it. Which is pretty much all you are doing which is why I'm going to stop replying now ✌?️
I think the outfit is ugly. The bow is cute though.
I hope that the ladies worried about pedophiles being attracted to this understand that they are attracted to the child and not what the child is wearing. You can't protect your kid against a pervert's sick thoughts by dressing your kids a certain way.
@skate
Yep and I was just stating my opinion. If I disagree with someone I'm allowed to state how I feel. Just like melody was stating how she felt and you argued against what she was saying ✌?️
Actually this whole post is about people and their opinions, not everyone has to agree with each other.
For all those saying this is ok. I hope you guys don't get upset when your 12 year old tries leaving the house wearing something like this...
I can't believe some people don't think this is too much. Yes, babies are pure innocence, but why dress them like this? So if I put my 2 year old in a crop top, high heels , booty shorts, lipstick, and eye shadow... some of you would find nothing wrong with that? After all they're innocent babies...
My mom made a good point she said these young girls that dress provocatively don't understand the message they are putting out. What's going to trigger sexual thoughts more a 12 year old in a shirt and jeans...or a 12 year old in booty shorts and a crop top? I know pedophiles will see any child and think sexual things but young girls shouldn't be dressing like they do now a days. They are too young.
Yeah that's true pp but there is still sick facks out there that would droll over a baby dressed like that. Its so sad and disgusting on how this world is. I would NEVER allow my daughter (if I had one) wear something like this until she is no longer living under my roof and can make her own decisions.
@four yes I did say that I didn't get it. I never went back on that. Because of how I see my daughter, I can't see anything on her as anything but innocent. As in, that how I see it. I didn't say someone else couldn't see it that way. I'm open to someone explaining why it's wrong, other than say "it's wrong" or saying "pedophiles ". Pedos will see any child and think something. It doesn't matter what a child is wearing. If you see it as wrong I'm not gonna argue with you over it. You are entitled to have your views as am I, and I respect your way of thinking. But for some reason your view is okay, but mine needs to be argued against or put down. Frankly it's a little petty, to single someone else for thinking differently than you.
I wouldn't put this on my child either BUT no one kill me for this!! Honest question!!!
Do you think people are more upset over the actual outfit? Or the fact that this makes you think of sick pedophiles who would find this "sexy". Because I honestly think it's the sick world we live in that makes these things "inappropriate"
My husband just said "Ahhhh, HELL NO!" ?
***Edit: I just asked would he be ok with Mya wearing this.
(How ironic that I just went to Rue 21 yesterday to find some jeans for school and I swear, I tried a pair on just like this! ?)
He said, "This might look nice on her when she's 20. She has her whole life to dress like an adult and she's not starting at 2". ?. Poor Mya. Between her Daddy and 3 brothers, she's going to have it rough.
My opinion is, no as well. I do love the headband though. And I agree with @Avery. What could she possibly be carrying in that purse. ?
@melody... that's gross because babies need a diaper or they would get poop and pee everywhere. They're also really uncomfortable so there is no reason for a small child to wear them. Nothing about this outfit is unhygienic or necessarily uncomfortable. So I'm not sure it's a good comparison. I also didn't say no one could find this outfit inappropriate or that it's not possible to dress a child inappropriately. I said I personally don't really see anything inappropriate about this.
I feel like babies and toddlers are supposed to dress cute and cuddly! Ya know, age appropriate stuff. Panda bears, owls, flippin Elmo not try be be twinsies with their mom. I just think it's too much! Why are some parents trying to make their children appear older than they are? ? let kids be kids! That's just my opinion though.
Edit: it's not "inappropriate" though, just not really my cup of tea on what a kid should be wearing.
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