Yeah I got so stressed I nearly punched him. so I packed a bag and asked mam to come get me before it got out of hand. He still kept seeing his mates side. doesn't help that you his mate sexually groped and kissed me on a night out years ago and he still makes time for him. I love my hubby but I'm not in his priorities and I don't think I ever have been. xx

@sazockaz14 oh that's bad, if it's really unbearable to live together you should both agree on something either take a break, no offence but he needs to grow up if he has a baby coming soon he should be more responsible or maybe he's getting it all out of his system before baby arrives, either way it's not good for you being pregnant you seem stressed out by it all x

Had a fallout. His best friend has been really disrespectful towards me and my family. All over fb. cos when he went out last night. They were posting everything on fb about gambling and planing on being hungover. The Xamount of money spent etc. basically taking the piss out of all my concerns I talked to hubby about. He just sided with his mate. This mate has come between us a few times. as he disrespect me constantly and hubby let's him. I walked out tonight with a holdall and spending few days at my rents. I've no patience left xx

@sazockaz14 just seeing this now, oh dear poor hubby is getting tortured lol, Us women just have no patience I used to be like that with my ex, he wasn't allowed to breathe lol, how are you both now ? X

Haha he's on the sofa. cos my spd was so bad last night I was in a huff. He however fell straight asleep starting twitching and snoring. so no said I don't think any of us are gonna get sleep if we sleep together. I said it calmly and he stormed off with his pillows haha. I had a good sleep lol x

@sazockaz14 your welcome :) haha let him sweat it out so he thinks he has done something wrong, milk it while you can lol x

Thanks @tori27 xx he keeps asking if I'm ok he's worried lol x

@sazockaz14 ah, see & then I think Ya feel bad, men are just a different breed from us women they don't have the Same thinking mechanism, they're like kids where u tell them off & then feel bad & want to hug & kiss them lol, I'm sure he's a lovely guy but prob doesn't know how to approach it or change it, & being pregnant can't help either as hormones are all over the place, give yourself time, & hopefully u will both sort it out, xx

He's a lovely lad and has good intentions but sometimes doesn't think how it affects me. We must have had this conversation so many times and he still does it I'm not saying it all must stop but just to be more sensitive and sensible with time and money. It really doesn't matter how I approach it. I've done the talk. the talk again. The disappointment talk. The I feel alone talk then the silence the shouting etc. He is his own person and independent but has a wife and a child to think about first. He's just hugged and kissed me and said don't get stressed about it. I said oh I'm not and just so disappointed with u it angers me. He wants to cosy up with a film. He's gone upstairs and I said I'd follow him. I'm still still sitting on couch. I cannot be arsed with him. xx

@sazockaz14 omg, sit him down & have a talk chic, if he's like this now you need to make changes as when baby comes he will prob let you do everything & it's not fair that the mum has to do everything, I have a friend she has a 2 year old & a 4mth old baby & her partner comes up at night & is quick to get out first thing in the morning, when she is left all day in a flat to look after 2 screaming children :/ it's really not fair how men can put the kids there & not help, really do talk with him and change things around hope it works out for u, I'm so glad I'm single & that way I can't complain my fella is here but doesn't do anything. X