it's so sad to me.... I personally know two 16 year old girls who each have one baby who's father's aren't in the…

okay... @jennatess 😆

I never read what you wrote @anqiee323 . I'm talking in general.

are you talking about me or the girls? @jennatess

Agree 100% @jennatess Smh at babies having babies. It definitely SHOULD NOT be encouraged. The ages continue and continue to get younger. 13? 12? 11? ARE YOU KIDDING ME...

(Sorry- I hit sent before I was done 😄) Girls who say, "it was unplanned", "it just happened", "it was an accident" need a swift kick. Every single time you have sex, you KNOW there is a chance. There is NO SUCH THING as an accidental pregnancy. 17 and on child number two with baby daddy number two is just crazy to me. Learn to respect yourself. Date a man for a few years first. Get married! And thennnnn have kids. These kids need a stable home environment. Not being separated on the weekends to go visit separate fathers - that is if they even see them regularly...

This is why waiting to get to KNOW a person is a great idea. Nobody knows who a person really is in a years time. Girls are so quick to rush things ... 😔

@nathaneals_mommy,

that's so not an excuse .... I lived in cali for 98% of my life . and , if I ever got pregnant at 16 with ONE kid I would be dead meat with broken limbs lol . my parents never played those games with me . lol . and no best friend of mines is going to let me go down a path of destruction let alone join me in it lol .

@monilovesautumn, well bc this is Cali. hahahah and this girls mom well she's the exact same way.

buy the other girl has a better head on her shoulders has a job and goes to highschool and raises her daughter.... but there like best friends. idk. hah

here's the winning question? where are the parents? and why are they doing drugs anyways? these girls would get their asses beat then ship they ass off to boarding school in Scottland lol

I'm pregnant again 2nd baby I'm 17 rn but I take care of my kids n I ddnt plan it... just happend... I had to take responsibility cx I dont like abortion at all....I wasn't ready but believe me I tried n I hope those girls stop doing those type of things n pay attention to there kid before they get taken away... I think its better if they take em away... the babies would b safer...

@anqiee323, yeah lol I'm just in shock

u ddnt say that in the post 😱

I wasn't saying they need the boys by any means.

I posted something earlier about how girls younger than 18 are PLANNING a pregnancy I don't get it I understand things happen unexpectedly but you'd think if you weren't ready the first time you'd wait till you're ready for the next time

@anqiee323, ...but you don't know these girls. ones doing drugs and just poseted on fb that she's pregnant again but still making a dessision if she's keeping it or not. really? its one thing to announce a pregnancy on fb but to announce a pregnancy and then tell everyone who congragalates you to shut up bc you don't know if your 'keeping the fucking thing"...and this is the same girl who gave her baby whos not even one yet adult sleep meds so she could do dope with the guy who got her pregnant and now just left her when he found out. she's NOT fit to be a mom. andddd she also smoked cigs threw her whole pregnancy. I'm not ok with it.

no offense girl. but there are those girls who keep popping out babies and dont take care of them there out and about and babies at home with grandma. im talking about girls i know personally btw

dang that's crazy 😨

they could do it they dont need em... I got pregnant when I was 13 had my baby at 14 he was there but I always felt lonely he helped but not as much... rn we good but everything is gonna get better for them :) I just know it a guy will come in there life n just make it better he will love her n her kid... she doesn't need to worry about guys rn let her focus on her kids n school the right guy would come :),