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well I guess I'm going to be a single mommy of two. my "boyfriend" decides because we are having money problems we…

well I guess I'm going to be a single mommy of two. my "boyfriend" decides because we are having money problems we should break up and I'm crazy blah blah blah since we starred dating I've been with him 247 for over a year I dont have any friends dont really talk to my family we live together and he is literally all I have my dog got hit by a car in January so I was out of work until a couple months ago and I finally got a job doing something I loved and then my motor when in the truck I just bought in December its like a never ending cycle and now he's leaving me because I say something when he's doing something with his friends and not telling me his plans and just wondering how long until he comes home so we can eat dinner together because I look forward to it all day but he sees it as me controlling him not to mention I lost my food stamps and wic because my car and the food stamps person lied to me so we have no food so making one meal is all we can afford if we have something in the cabinets because he pays part of our rent and then spends the rest on cigs and weed and even uses my unemployment for cigs and takes it so he can eat at work and then gets mad when I get food like I dont even know what to do I need a car and a job to try to make things work until I have these babies because I know he won't help and if he moves out I'm gonna lose the roof over my head ugh sorry ladies just needed to get it off my chest end of rant

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

thank you @kaaaymb glad you made a preggie welcome!! 😁

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

oh lol I thought we might have known each other lol @10miku25

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damiensmommabear1003

Stephanie WilliamsВ ожидании первенца

It's in ur original post hun

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

@babyhawkins2015, I know I just pray everyday to god that he will help me get through everything but its been so hard!

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

@10miku25, how did you know that?

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brookesmommmy

KaylaВ ожидании первенца

I'm here if you need anything.

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babyhawkins2015

Dawn soon-to-be HawkinsМама четверых детей, беременна

Us women are much stronger than we think. I was in an abusive relationship with my three kids sperm donor (that's all he ended up being) for 13 years...I was scared and alone with a 9, 7, & 2 year old... no real education and broke. But by the grace of the man upstairs and my will to survive for my kids, I made things happen and changed for the better.

Now, I am in no way saying to give up on the relationship...only you can decide what is best for your children and you. But there are resources out there to help... you just have to do a little research. trust me, I know what it's like.

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damiensmommabear1003

Stephanie WilliamsВ ожидании первенца

Well, I think he just needs to freaking grow up bcuz he has a 3yr old of his own

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

thank you so much! @babyhawkins2015

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

its okay just trying to figure out what I'm gonna do I don't have a car and I lost my job because my car died and I could never afford where I live on my own it just sucks I never would have thought we would be like this @10miku25

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babyhawkins2015

Dawn soon-to-be HawkinsМама четверых детей, беременна

sending prayers and virtual hugs your way.

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damiensmommabear1003

Stephanie WilliamsВ ожидании первенца

I really do hope that things work out for u

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damiensmommabear1003

Stephanie WilliamsВ ожидании первенца

God, he is a dick, I'm so sry for u hun

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pregolove2014

JМама подростка

its even harder if he was your only support with pretty much everything but I think women are stronger than they realize.

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pregolove2014

JМама подростка

It was mine too and now my fiance is my ex fiance of 4 years but surprisingly for me I overcome that feeling I just focus on my baby and continuing to love myself but its hard I went from hating him to I forgive him moving on with my baby and I'll work it out

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

thanks love I hope so it was just one of my biggest fears being a single mother and its coming to be reality @pregolove2014

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pregolove2014

JМама подростка

so sorry to read your post I feel for you , I do hope things change for the better for you.

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

yeah lol he's like I'm done blah blah blah I tried leaving him so many times and he guilts me to stay with him or thinking sex will fix everything @blessedmommy

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blessedmommy

sarahМама сына-младенца

I'd be mad too. personally I wouldn't put up with that shit from my fiance. lol

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hannahmarie0803

hannahmarie0803

its okay just annoying since we meet I supported him and now that I'm back out of work he's just being a dick like he does everything he can barely pay our rent my credit is being destroyed because god forbid I pay my bills he gets mad sorry lol I'm just so mad @blessedmommy

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blessedmommy

sarahМама сына-младенца

oh wow I'm sorry!

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