Soo ladies I need some advice my fiances sister is supposed to be my sons godmother but he's not even born yet and I'm having second thoughts she is very selfish and doesn't do anything but ask me for favors and stuff everyday when it should be the other way around I'm 8 months pregnant and she always asks me to take her mom everywhere like the other day a 3 hour grocery shopping trip and had me take in all the bags even tho she was home all day complaining it was too hot for her to go out! But yet I can?? Even my fiancé her own brother doesn't think I should of let her be the godmother in the first place but she found out I picked out my brother and asked me to be the godmother I felt trapped and said yes she has not even helped my mom with the shower even just by decorating or helping with favors she even put her name on the present her mother bought for my shower without helping buy it or pick it out when my best friend has helped my mother with everything and Is always there for me I want my bestie to be my kids godmother but don't know how to tell her I don't want her to be his godmother anymore due to the fact she can't help me or even her own mother at all how can she be there for my son if anything ever happens to us ya know plz ladies help me how do I tell her without hurting her feelings or making her fight with us ??? 😕
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Tell her how you feel about her not helping out and explain why you don't want her to be the god parent.
The god parent should be somebody that helps support you and that baby and will continue to do so under any circumstances. You shouldn't have to feel bad or trapped because of a decision you want to make, you are doing what you think is best for that baby not for anybody else.
Thank you ladies it's been bothering me for a while now and she is the type of person that with hold a grudge or be confrontational about it just makes me nervous cause I'm totally opposite I'm one of those people that try to make everyone happy even if it doesn't make me happy but it's about my son this time not me
you need to make the god parent (s) someone you know that you can trust to take care and provide the best possible life for your child if something happened to you and your fiance, by the sound of it just because she is family doesn't mean she is able to be that person.
^ I agree. Just sit down and talk with your fiance's sister and let her know that she'll be an aunt to your baby regardless and that no one can take that away from her. A god mother is a very important role to take on and if you feel your bestfriend can handle that responsibility, let her by all means. At the end of the day, it's about who's really gonna be there for your baby.. not just having a title. Hope that helps hun ❤
that it will be better for everyone if your best friend in the godmother.. and it's all about what Is best for the baby.
say you. thought about it and just because your so close and do a lot with your best friend and she's more active in your life therefore she will be in your baby's life more. say its nothing against you she is just a better fit
She the aunt already. tell her since she's aunty your besty will be the godmother.