Soo ladies I need some advice my fiances sister is supposed to be my sons godmother but he's not even born yet and I'm having second thoughts she is very selfish and doesn't do anything but ask me for favors and stuff everyday when it should be the other way around I'm 8 months pregnant and she always asks me to take her mom everywhere like the other day a 3 hour grocery shopping trip and had me take in all the bags even tho she was home all day complaining it was too hot for her to go out! But yet I can?? Even my fiancé her own brother doesn't think I should of let her be the godmother in the first place but she found out I picked out my brother and asked me to be the godmother I felt trapped and said yes she has not even helped my mom with the shower even just by decorating or helping with favors she even put her name on the present her mother bought for my shower without helping buy it or pick it out when my best friend has helped my mother with everything and Is always there for me I want my bestie to be my kids godmother but don't know how to tell her I don't want her to be his godmother anymore due to the fact she can't help me or even her own mother at all how can she be there for my son if anything ever happens to us ya know plz ladies help me how do I tell her without hurting her feelings or making her fight with us ??? 😕