Hey, I just wanted to introduce myself again because the first post was deleted. My name is Brooke, I am 20 years old. I recently lost my son Zeek at 28 weeks 3 days, he was born May 7. I am hoping to find the support that I need to get through this, and also share my experience. I also hope to conceive my rainbow baby sometime in the near future.
Yes i deff agree 💕 & ikno for myself i have not shared my full emotiond to what ive gone thru around family & friends i put the act of im ok im strong im not thinking about it. but inside it was eating me alive. i want to get use to the fact of accepting what has happened being able to tlk about it or discuss pregnancy nd babies without feeling so down nd not wanting to be bothered. idk maybe that was just a phase. because now i feel 100% ready to talk share nd hear others discuss happy storys. xo. i felt maybe me feeling dwn about it stopped the process of me being able to try again and having success. but no lore neg NANCY 😍😍 ....
@mrs.lima, you're welcome! and I'm sorry for your loss. and that was my main goal was to find support from others who have experienced what I have and to hopefully help someone in a similar situation. it does make me feel better to see other moms who've experienced a loss like we have because it let's me know that I'm not alone, like you said.
hi nice to meet you.. thank you for sharing your story. i am so sorry to hear what has happened. i myself experienced similar in feb with my pregnancy. & honestly hearing your story helps to know i am not the only one looking for support outside of family friends. sometimes those we love dont realize how hard it is unless theyre going through it themselves. so thank you for sharing. look forward to seeing many blessings turn around for the better for all of us who have gone through similar situations.
thank you, and no we still don't know what caused him to pass on. I went to the doctor the day before and his heartbeat was 132 then the next morning I go to another doctor appointment to have an ultrasound and his heart had stopped. we had an autopsy done to determine the cause of death but haven't heard anything back yet.
I am so sorry to hear that. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find the comfort love and support you need in this trying time. Did the Dr.'s give you any consolation as to what exactly happened if you don't mind my asking?
I am taking it minute by minute, and I plan to start trying again once I have given myself enough time to grieve and give my body time to heal.
This is heart breaking to hear. The best advice I received after my miscarriage was to take time for yourself to grieve before trying again and to process all your emotions. I'm truly sorry you're going through this.
I feel like its better for me to talk about him and share my experience because it helps me cope with losing him. I just try to take it a minute at a time, and time will eventually make it easier. it will never take the pain away but day by day it does get a little easier. I just do whatever I have to to feel better and eventually I'll be okay. I hope that by next year I'll be ready to try to conceive again.