I'm almost 14 weeks and I don't want any judgement or any unhelpful comments. I'm worried I wont…

I think you worrying about these things show you care. I think you will be ok :) ♡♡

although if you really dont think you can provide your baby with what it needs then adoption or even if you feel like abortion is your best solution it is your choice.

What do you want? Your family isn't the one that's pregnant. You are. You will be responsible for raising and teaching that child. Not them. I'm pregnant with my first baby and he was unplanned. Even though the dad and I were engaged when we found out, things are not good with us and I've had to contemplate raising this baby alone, so I understand your fear. At least you admit to wanting to love this baby. I think it's ok for you to feel the way you do. Your feelings will change as your pregnancy progresses. Feeling your baby move may change your feelings, or you may not realize how much love you have for your baby until he/she is actually born. Just be sure to do what's best for you and baby regardless of how others may feel. It'll all be ok.

That's exactly how I felt a majority of my pregnancy. It was unplanned and I found out around the time me and my fiancé were splitting up. We've gotten back together since then, but being only 20 and in the prime of my college years, I can't help but still have those thoughts from time to time. All I can say is that things will eventually lighten up and you'll have a little person that loves you unconditionally and will walk the earth just to see you smile. If you ever need someone to talk to just know that I'm here, as well as the other moms on here. Keep your head up love

Do what's best for YOU. Because in the end it is your life and you know what's best for yourself

I can relate I'm 31 I have an almost 13 year old I didn't want anymore until married, my docs said it would be hard to get preg n 6 years ago I tried no luck I had been with my bf 3 years n July got pregnant total surprise we were on shaky ground, made several appts to abort finally decided it wasn't something I could go thru with . That put more strain in our relationship I didn't really get excited for baby until like 7/8 months was scared I wouldn't like her but I love her to death! She's renewed my motivation to keep striving for the best. Me n her dad don't look like we are going to work out but I don't regret my final decision to keep my blessing. Sometimes it takes times even for moms to form attachment to unborn babies its normal when u see her or him u will fall in love

aww everything is going to be ok. I'm pregnant with my second child and I am absolutely afraid that my son is going to push away from me once the baby comes. I'm sonafraid he's going to be jealous and not want me anymore. A baby is a blessing. Once the baby arrives you forget that you ever felt that way. Being a mom is GREAT!

I think it will be different when you really start feeling the baby kick and moving around. It feels a lot more real