It's so annoying and I try to talk to her like an adult and she wants to argue with me and change the way I do things. I told her we need time apart because like u said when he comes home he's a brat and wants junk food wtc and it takes days to get him back to normal @kimberlyyyy

I was living with my dad my son who's almost 4 got away with everything if I yelled at him I would get yelled at needless to say I moved out and told him unless he's gonna help he doesn't need to be part of our lives anymore

My mum does the same exact thing. I just keep him away from her. I know that's messed up but I get sick of MY child coming home screaming, thinking it's ok to hit me or pull my hair, and it takes me days to get him to eat something healthy because all my mum feeds him at her house is junk food! I wish I had a better suggestion but I've been struggling with the same problem and there's no way to change another parent's parenting ways (even if they suck!).