Yeah I know thats how I'm feeling .. @firefly getting fed up with everything

3 years a d you've never meet his kids?! Damm girl I'd nip that in the butt. Best of luck to you!

We have been together for 3 years 30 .. Old enough to know better .. @firefly

How long have you two been together? And if you don't mind me asking his age and yours

I would like that but his children don't like me and he never mentions our relationship to them.. I have never even met them .. @firefly

I feel like you should both tell his children together

Very true thank you 😊 @uhmandaxconrad92

Don't let it get you feeling like that sweet heart....he is with you and not her for a reason so be sure she understands that real quick. Don't let her be the boss of YOUR FAMILY an YOUR RElATIONSHIP! Tell him you don't care how immature or selfish he thinks it is. Say it's the way you feel and it's your life. And ask if he cared about you he wouldn't judge your feelings!

Sigh 😣 thanks ladies at least now I know I'm not the wrong one here! And yes I'm sure she's happy as hell he follows what she says! Maybe they should be together and leave me alone @uhmandaxconrad92 @izzyheart

No he immature and selfish!!! Them kids are well old enough to know what's going on! That's just sad girl! I hope he opens his eyes soon. I bet his other "baby momma" thinks it's all funny and that's bs! I'd be furious! I'm getting mad talking about it! Smh 😤

this sound like my baby father except he has no kids YET. I told anyway! He's being an ass be sure to tell him you didn't make that baby by yourself smh

He's a great dad .. That I can say.. @jessicagarmal

sounds toxic... hows his.parenting skills?

@jessicagarmal, I've tried stating my feelings and his response is always they are my kids I'll deal with them how I want to .. Or he'll say im selfish or immature. Honestly there is no winning this argument he makes me feel like shit for even saying anything.

how logical is that? the bump is just gas and the baby crying.in the other room is a baby eagle?.. how would this hurt them? i feel like they would be excited... my sister was in a similar situation.. her bf didnt want to tell anyone until when they found out what it was.. then the first thing out of his mouth when he saw the heart beat wasnt joy.. it was "oh man mom is going to be pissed".. wtf he is a 41 year old man!!! such a momas boy... id tell him hes actually the.one.being selfish.. this miggt be his fourth rodeo but your first and you deserve to be hapoy.. you are sacrificing you body to create his baby... tell him he needs to fet his priorities straight...

That's smart of you and it's total bs that he wants you to hide it once you're showing you aren't gunna be able to hide it anyway so he needs to just let you announce it when you're ready

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Wow.. No offense but he sounds like a total ass about this. You are not wrong at all. He is taking your joy away just because he's scared to tell his kids.

I feel like my baby is not important at all .. I said the same thing this baby is yours too and he responded with the im immature and selfish @uhmandaxconrad92

Personally I wouldn't want the kids to know until you're further along that way if God forbid something were to happen you wouldn't have to explain it to children/young adults however that's YOUR decision and he shouldn't expect you to hide it if you don't want to

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Thanks yea it's a horrible feeling@uhmandaxconrad92 they are 12, 15 and 9 @mdomke22 he said that I only care about myself and I don't care about breaking his kids heart.. :(

how old are his kids? and no you have a right to be pissed. what is the big deal?! Smh

He'll no he is wrong for expecting you to keep y'all's precious child to yourself. That baby is those kids sibling and that baby is just as much his baby as the rest of them! They better get it together and get prepared to tell them. Girl I feel bad for you! I'm sorry you have to go through that