I don't know how some mom's do it , I give extreme props to those mom who have baby's only months or a year apart I wouldn't be able to do it , IM SO GLAD I WAITED 7 YEARS TO HAVE ANOTHER BABY , IT'S DEFINITELY A BIG GAP/AGE DIFFERENCE BUT my son helps me with EVERYTHING that has to do with his little brother, When I go grocery shopping and i can't carry all the bags my son helps me carry the rest,When I need to cook or do something around the house I tell my son to watch/entertain the baby till I finish and so on and so on, It's definitely a big age difference but I wouldn't change anything about it !!!!! like some say "it's better to have children back to back so that they can play with each other", umm fuck that my babies could play with me or someone else's kid lmao 😂😂❤