So my boyfriend works all day morning to night , we talk and text when he has time . We hardly spent time together , because he only has one day off . It's sad , and also the fact that I'm always in pain but don't let him know idk why ? He comes back from work expecting food ready . And it's hard for me cause I'm not capable of doing a lot if things my baby is always moving to the point that I just want to explote cause of the pain . Can't stand up for long get really bad back pains . It's just hard having to go up the stairs every single time /: I really don't know why I don't tell him I even cry cause I feel like if I don't clean or make an effort to make food he might look at me like a lazy ass :( idk what to do ??😪
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I was like that too with my first one. toward the end I just felt awful so exhausted and depressed I didn't want to do anything. don't act like it's nothing because it isn't. it very important for him to understand What you're going thru. don't beat around the bush you need to tell him because the stress you're causing yourself cam have an even bigger effect then you moving around and being sore. remember all your emotions effect the baby more then you could imagine so tell him and let him know you're worried. don't be afraid if he loves you he will understand and won't think any less of you @donna_notbert16
I try telling him but at the end I just act like nothing's wrong . But I'm in pain. I just feel like he's gonna think that I don't want to do anything or I'm just being lazy . It hurts me when sometimes he comes home and I don't have dinner ready . Makes me think that he's like "really your all day alone and can't cook or clean " that's how I see it , but sometimes I feel like if I force myself to do things I can something might go wrong , or my baby might come early . I'm gonna be 35 weeks in a couple of days and idk if suppose to feel like this but it sucks 😪I want to cry for every little thing .
you need to tell him and share with him your pregnancy. my husband expected take a clean house and dinner too but he knows we have a one year old who takes up a lot of my time also that I'm tired too. being a mom and/or pregnant is a full time job. sharing your pregnancy with your other half not only helps you but it helps him to understand what you're going thru. and also to help you. one of the things I did with my son when I was pregnant with him is when I would have that burst of energy I would start getting dinner ready cutting the food and prepping so that when dinner time came around I could just pop everything either in the oven or in pans it helps a lot :)
Tell him! If he knows u he will understand. My husband understands that I can't do as much as I could before. I get really bad back pains too
Thank you so much I just let him know and he's seems to understand . Thank you if you guys wouldn't motivated me to do it I honestly don't know when I would've stepped up and said something . Thanks a lot and I'm just gonna rest as much as I can and once I'm getting pain gonna stop what I'm doing and think about my baby first . Thank you @lovelylittleo