Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My bf moved with me to be closer to my family when I got pregnant. He has made it clear he hates living so close to my parents and wants to move. Which is fine, I don't always want to live near my parents. But we also have an 11 month old and another baby due in july. I still go to highschool and told him I just want to finish out highschool without moving schools again. I've done it too many times in my life. And it's hard enough making new friends when your a teen mom. His response is I don't want him to succeed and if I don't move with him he will be fighting for his kids.....idk what to do.😳😳😳
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Trigger warning UPDATE IN COMMENTS So going off of my poll about using correct body terms I need some 2nd opinions. I feel like I am so paranoid about this. So my sil has been with my brother for 12 years now. Our families are really close. We clean for her mom and step dad every two weeks and house sit from time to time. Her mom absolutely adores my dd so we would bring her with us. I started noticing that her stepdad would always want to bring her in another room. I didn't think anything because they could occupy her while we cleaned no big deal. Her mom would often lay down because she has severe fibromyalgia and has a hard time with pain. But then he would say things like let's go in the play room and change your diaper. And if we went into that room to vacuum or clean the bathroom he seemed burdened that we went in there. Odd. I mentioned it to dh and he started getting uncomfortable with her being alone with him. I just always had a weird feeling about how he acted and the things he'd say. I just didn't really start paying attention until after awhile. He always says things like why don't you come sit on my lap. It always just sounded weird when he said it. I don't want to cause trouble if nothing is really happening but would his behavior strike you as odd or weird? Should I be concerned?
@donna_serenity14·
Thank you so much I just let him know and he's seems to understand . Thank you if you guys wouldn't motivated me to do it I honestly don't know when I would've stepped up and said something . Thanks a lot and I'm just gonna rest as much as I can and once I'm getting pain gonna stop what I'm doing and think about my baby first . Thank you @lovelylittleo
Olivia·
I was like that too with my first one. toward the end I just felt awful so exhausted and depressed I didn't want to do anything. don't act like it's nothing because it isn't. it very important for him to understand What you're going thru. don't beat around the bush you need to tell him because the stress you're causing yourself cam have an even bigger effect then you moving around and being sore. remember all your emotions effect the baby more then you could imagine so tell him and let him know you're worried. don't be afraid if he loves you he will understand and won't think any less of you @donna_notbert16
@donna_serenity14·
I try telling him but at the end I just act like nothing's wrong . But I'm in pain. I just feel like he's gonna think that I don't want to do anything or I'm just being lazy . It hurts me when sometimes he comes home and I don't have dinner ready . Makes me think that he's like "really your all day alone and can't cook or clean " that's how I see it , but sometimes I feel like if I force myself to do things I can something might go wrong , or my baby might come early . I'm gonna be 35 weeks in a couple of days and idk if suppose to feel like this but it sucks 😪I want to cry for every little thing .
Olivia·
you need to tell him and share with him your pregnancy. my husband expected take a clean house and dinner too but he knows we have a one year old who takes up a lot of my time also that I'm tired too. being a mom and/or pregnant is a full time job. sharing your pregnancy with your other half not only helps you but it helps him to understand what you're going thru. and also to help you. one of the things I did with my son when I was pregnant with him is when I would have that burst of energy I would start getting dinner ready cutting the food and prepping so that when dinner time came around I could just pop everything either in the oven or in pans it helps a lot :)
Alhy Berry·
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Tell him! If he knows u he will understand. My husband understands that I can't do as much as I could before. I get really bad back pains too