I do not even feel 18 weeks pregnant.... has anyone not felt as close to the second as they were to their first pregnancy. I find it hard to even put into words, I just seem to not have a connection to his baby yet :/ makes me feel terrible. please tell me I am not the only one, it almost seems as though I feel guilty about a new baby because in her eyes I might be replacing her so then I don't even try with this one. all my attention goes to my daughter now.
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I don't think you should feel guilty...this is my first pregnancy and until I felt her kick at around 25 weeks I didn't feel pregnant and I didn't feel the overwhelming love I feel for her now. I felt bad about it too, but it came with time :)
Don't be nervous at all think positive and try to enjoy every second and take steps into falling in love with your baby talk and rub your belly even if you don't feel the baby moving yet I did even though I felt her early on
@mimiz, what is weird is I am not afraid of losing this baby like I was with my first, by first I mean first live birth. I am sorry for your loss
I lost her unfortunately at 20 weeks. And with this pregnancy I was so in love and excited but on the beginning I was afraid to form a bond but it's normal behavior
with my first I was in constant worry because of a previous loss, but still excitement was their and somewhat of a love. with this one it is really different. kind of scares me that I don't seem to love this baby yet :/
I didn't have a connection at all my first pregnancy many days I forgot I was pregnant until I looked down no symptoms nothing not even cravings
Almost 28 weeks with third baby and don't have a connection with this baby yet.... I didn't feel pregnant until just recently but still havent "fell in love" just yet....