Im really struggling. I have an almost 4 year old and he has anger issues like 1 min he will be okay and next hes hitting me biting me telling me to shut up and its not just me he does it too its also his sister and I got to the point where I cannot do anything. Spanking, time outs, taking toys away everything ive tried does NOT phase him. But I am lost at words I feel like i have failed as a mother and its taking a huge toll on me and I just wanna lock myself in a room and cry because i dont kn...