ok, so I've been having what I assume are bh.. so here's my question.. when u are having real ones, do u contract really low in the bottom of ur belly too, down in the groin/public area, or is it just the mid part and up (like I've been having)? I never had contractions with my first baby, not even bh.. so this whole bh thing is throwing me off. and I've also never had menstrual cramps to compare that to (I know, sounds crazy, but I havent!)