seriously my boyfriend was being an assistant to me this morning over the fact that I used the vibrator last night bc he went to bed before 9 and I was in the mood then he made me feel like complete shit when I woke up not to mention I only had 4 hours of sleep. like duck would you rather have me going out and ducking every guy I see..... I mean using a vibrater seems a lot better for my relationship when it comes to that sort of thing...