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cortney

Why Does Seeing Others Get Pregnant Make Me Feel Depressed?

I hate feeling depressed. everyone I know is getting pregnant. especially people who either don't deserve to be mother because their to into drugs or people who arent even ready to be parents. and it kills me. it's kills me more then anything. I look at this little giraffe. that plays a melody. the same exact toy that I had as a baby. and same exact melody. and it kills me and makes my heart ache that I don't have a child to give that memory to, to pass on :/

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momma-1-2k16

cortney

what is pre-seed @babybenson2016

babybenson2016

Aleshia

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I had this same trouble tried for 4 years with no luck, I also suffered from endometriosis though, my husband and I just started taking vitamins I took super healthy organic prenatal and we purchased some pre-seed found out we where pregnant exactly 2 months later

ahjahlove92

Kali. d.Price

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sure you can msg me I'm at work waiting to be let in its cold here lol I need the company lol

momma-1-2k16

cortney

is it okay if I message you my SO is asleep and I'm really needing someone to talk to @ahjahlove92

momma-1-2k16

cortney

awwwee thank you @ahjahlove92 I know we will when it happen just suck :/

ahjahlove92

Kali. d.Price

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I know how you feel love I'm in the same situation I just pray it changes for us I know we would make great moms

momma-1-2k16

cortney

THANK YOU

jaixi

Jacinda

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I've Been where you are !

1.Negative energy, needs to stop. I know it's hard too but it's not going to help at all.

2. Make sure your period is regulated. Almost like clock work. This is important because you need to know when you are ovulating . If you have irregular periods try vitex. It's what regulated mines. I took it up until my period was consistent and stopped.

3. Once your period is regulated, take ovulation test everytime you think you are ovulating to get a sense of when that is. You can get cheap dollar ovulation test at dollar tree if that's near you.

4. Have sex all the time. I mean ALL THE TIME! Like once you have the ovulation thing down make sure you have sex right before you start ovulating and the entire time you are ovulating.

5. Make sure you take prenatals vitamins. Prepare your body for the baby.

6. Make sure you and your partner are very hydrated and eating right. This means fruits, salads, egg, nuts, less alcohol, veggies, water water water!!! Etc.

7. I honestly don't know how well this works but elevate your hips after sex for like 5-10mins.

I started doing this towards the end of my get pregnant journey and found out I was pregnant... I actually don't know if this contributed.

8.Work out!! Your body will reject the baby if you don't make your body strong or healthy enough.

9. Oh if your period is already consistent try maca. It helps boost your progesterone levels . That's what helps encourage pregnancy. That's the last thing I was taking before i found out I was pregnant.

9. Don't stress out about it!!! Don't obsess about the pregnancy . It will drive you mad. Which stresses you body out and makes it harder for pregnancy to occur.

These are things I did to get pregnant. I was persistent and determined. Don't give up and don't let it bring you down. It took us 1 year 5 months and 5 days to find out we were pregnant. In that I had many setbacks I did for myself. I watched friend after friend get pregnant who didn't even want that life yet. I had a friend who decided to get her child aborted.. That almost killed me emotionally but you can't let shit like that get in place of your goals!!! You keep pushing and take matters into your own hands. Nature can only do so much for you. DO FOR YOURSELF!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

momma-1-2k16

cortney

me and my boyfriend haven't been trying for over a year and my momma said if you haven't been trying for over a year they won't even consider looking at you

mumof2

jazz

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)

have you talked to your Obgyn?

momma-1-2k16

cortney

thank you @mumof2 . I just wish there was something I could do to increase my fertility :(

mumof2

jazz

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)

this really is touching I feel deeply for you Hun.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

What's annoying you at the moment??

What's annoying you at the moment?? Girls who blatantly claim, "I'm gonna use my looks to my advantage" really annoy me, and people who post political things on social media, also annoys me!