Ugh I am at a total loss. I have no idea what to do anymore. My second son is just bad. I’m almost to my breaking point. I’ve done everything you can think of and he just keeps doing the bad stuff over and over.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?
Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
TMI , but my vagina is hurting so bad and my hips just rolling over in bed it hurts so bad !!!! .. when I was pregnant with my son I never had pain like this ! Does anyone know what could be wrong ???? Or what I can do to relieve the pain at night
I need some advice! I just had my son a little over a month ago and I want to wait 5-10 years to have another baby. Is a age gap a bad thing?
squishymommy1·
I can empathize
Heather··
I’ve wondered if he has ODD.
squishymommy1··
we don’t have a formal diagnosis because we can’t even get into anywhere to get one! The mental Health system especially for kids sucks.
Heather··
I agree! It’s absolutely horrible.
callatelaboca·
I'm sorry I know you've been dealing with this for awhile 😕
Heather··
It just keeps getting worse and worse. Court didn’t phase him, counseling just started and it doesn’t seem to have helped, getting “arrested” didn’t help. Which it wasn’t really. The police called and said he was arrested but when I went to pick him up he was in the break room with his friends watching a phone and they had drinks and snacks out of the vending machines. The police have no suggestions either.
M_🖤·
I am so sorry you’re continuing to go through this 🤍
scream.queen·
I'm so sorry Heather. I was hoping things would get better. 😔
Heather··
He’s about to get dropped off at the youth shelter for 30 days. See if he realizes how much he has it made at home.
scream.queen··
If that's what it takes, maybe it will make him change. You can't keep doing this before something worse happens. I know you're trying. ❤
Heather··
I’ve done so much I really am at a total loss of what to do next. I swear he’s going to give me a heart attack
JenX·
I'm just sending lots of love to you and @squishymommy1
I obviously have no clue how to handle a teenager. I will be crossing that bridge in 4 years.
XryztalRoze·
Check and see if they have a "Young Marines" program in your area.... Go and interview the Commander and cadre and give it a try if there is one. It's kind of like JROTC but on your own time and it uses military history, drill and ceremony, to instill pride into kids. It can help to have a mentor outside of the family and this program if it's still good like when I was a kid, will help you!
DragonTrainer1·
Im sorry its so hard to go through that.