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Emily
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Hey mamas, sorry for the long post in advance any advice is really appreciated. I’m feeling really guilty about leaving…

Hey mamas, sorry for the long post in advance any advice is really appreciated. I’m feeling really guilty about leaving my almost 3 year old in daycare. I just finished college and he was in daycare three days a week while I had class and did my work, but now that I am officially done with my degree I don’t have much to do those three days expect job searching and taking care of my house. I have some interviews lined up, so I’m hoping I’ll land a job soon, but I don’t want to take him out temporarily bc my son could loose his spot in this daycare. When I get a full time job (hopefully soon🙏) I will have to switch him to 5 days instead of 3 so I wouldn’t want him to have to start the transition process all over again if I took him out. I just feeling so incredibly guilty lately about leaving him especially bc he’s been crying at drop off lately (his teacher said he’s fine a min later though) and he’s always happy at pick up and says he had a great day but it still breaks my heart. I should be enjoying this time off to myself I don’t get often before I work full time but I can’t help but feel so guilty about dropping him off bc I’m not working at the moment. How do I deal with this guilty feeling in the meantime🥺 what should I do?? I’m at a loss.

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luv_2b_amomma

Toni 🌸🌟💕Мама четверых детей

I’m sure that’s a normal feeling that most moms feel when having to leave the kids at daycare. Especially when your use to being with them all day everyday. I would leave him in daycare especially since your trying to find work and so he doesn’t lose his spot. It’s ok to feel guilty about it, don’t feel bad for feeling bad. Eventually it will become much easier for you both. I’m a sahm and my kids never left my side besides my oldest going to his grandparents house sometimes. When I was in labor my 2 year who has never yet left my side had to go to his grandparents house for the first time and I cried and felt so bad everyday I was at the hospital but I had to leave him and I reassured him that I missed him and I only left his side because I had to not because I wanted to. Your doing a great job keep it up mama 💕💪🏽

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babybump21

EmilyМама сына (2 года)

Thank you so much mama that’s so sweet🥺🥺🥺 I know I need to leave him in for the time being but it’s just so hard dropping him off!! Idk how I’m going to do it five days a week when I start working but we really need the money right now. I should be enjoying my time off but the guilt is so strong, I’ve just been crying all day inbetween job searching and interviews. I can’t wait till it gets easier 🥺

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mujerstillregal

So RoyalМама сына (2 года), беременна (17 нед.)

Let him continue daycare. It doesn't make sense to take him out, he gets used to being with you all the time and then your plop him back in daycare. Leave him in for the consistency, especially since he's doing fine in there

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babybump21

EmilyМама сына (2 года)

Yeah I know. It’s gonna do more harm then good, drop off has just been so hard lately. He was totally fine at pick up and was having fun so idk why I feel so much guilt

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