Married Moms: do you still get tested for STDs every couple of months even though you’re married and don’t suspect that…

Umm no. That’s weird. They must have trust issues in their marriage because that is not normal.

If I’m at the gyno, I do it because why not? But I don’t go to specifically get tested and I don’t hide it from my husband.

No I do not go in for extra exams if it’s not my anual pap. I don’t like the speculum I do what I can to avoid that thing lol.

I’ve been married for going on 5 years and I only get tested when I’m getting a pap or when I’ve been pregnant.

Your friends are cheating on their husbands lol. As others have said, if I'm getting a pap done I may as well get all the tests. Other than that no.

It’s because they don’t have a trusting relationship. Otherwise, you don’t have any reason to be tested.

I personally dont...but if you decide to dont keep it a secret because if he finds out it looks like your doing something on the side and that's why you need to be tested...thay how I would feel if the roles were reversed.

Huh? Seriously? No way, I don’t get tested when I’ve been married for 7 years. That sounds crazy to me!

Certain stds can lay dormant for years. I Would definitely keep up on it when its time for pap smears but every couple of months is pretty crazy.

Ehhh no.

Sometimes they just run it at my annual exam but I’ve never asked for it.

It's a no here... that's pretty shady lol

No, I mean my yearly exams i get offered it. But i decline. I'd say If it's a yearly exam thing that a person just goes with its whatever, you know? No extra exam happens or anything, HOWEVER if a woman is sneaking and making appointments just to get tested for STDs there is a SERIOUS trust issue there, like maybe said person has cheated on them in the past and they arent giving you that info, which would make sense not to tell their husbands. Or maybe they are cheating or messing around themselves and IF they tell their husbands then their husbands would be on to them.

Just my 2 cents! 😅

No but the last time I got tested was when I was pregnant.

Nope. No reason to.

If I'm not itchy or my vag ain't stank, then I have no reason to 🙂 Even in that case, I'd also ask for UTI/yeast infection screening.

To get tested regularly? And in secret? You're basically admitting that you don't trust you're in a healthy relationship, so why stay?

They just asked me at the doc at my annual if I wanted STD testing and I said no. I don’t usually give my husband a play by play of that appointment though. If I said yes for whatever reason, I don’t know that I would mention it to him. 🤔

I don’t unless like others have said being pregnant. But I think something in their marriage is causing them to feel it’s necessary.

No I wouldn’t be with my husband if I didn’t trust him

No I do not feel the need to.

No? Like annual check up swap when necessary sure. But randomly every couple months definitely would not.

If I’m at the gyno, I do it because why not? But I don’t go to specifically get tested and I don’t hide it from my husband.

Yes we both do.

No, only when pregnant 🤰🏻.

Nope.

Nope, same as above... only get tested when pregnant.

No, I do not this. Only been tested when pregnant.

What? People do that? No

Umm no. That’s weird. They must have trust issues in their marriage because that is not normal.

No.....