My daughters dad was hone all day today. No work. He took off. He usually works almost everyday and doesnt get back till…
My daughters dad was hone all day today. No work. He took off. He usually works almost everyday and doesnt get back till late. But my daughter will ask about him and ask. Then tonight when i was cooking dinner, she asks her sad if she csn go to her and his park. Thsts what she calle it "mine and daddy's park" without mommy. He feel as if he says crap like that to her which is kind of weird AF to her because hes obsessed with that little girl being his "daddy's girl" he eill say am i your best friend and he has taught her that he is and nobody else. Or he'll get offended when she says brother. She used to say brother was ger best friend and he'll pretend to cry. Now if i say "am i your best friend" she'll say no. Same thing with the park whifh idk why hed say hers and my park. I just think its weird. I would never teach her all this crap. My daughter wont even skt with me anymore and she is so defiant when it comes to me. I used to not care about the park thing or the best friend thing but now she acts like she wants nothing to do with me. Shes only 3 lol
deborahjq·
These are some huge red flags. He's essentially teaching her not to trust anyone else by telling her that he's the only best friend she's allowed to have (not even her brother is allowed to share that space) and it seems there are other toxic things he's been repeating to her because she's being more defiant towards you and doesn't even sit with you.
This isn't normal. The way he's treating her isn't normal. It's highly toxic and is indicative of abusive behaviour.