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Adrienne Kark

My cousin's wife is due 2 weeks after me and my mom keeps telling me about her updates like "she already lost her mucus…

My cousin's wife is due 2 weeks after me and my mom keeps telling me about her updates like "she already lost her mucus plug, she could go before you"

"It's possible she will have this baby first before you which is crazy because it's her first and your 4th. You should go first. Try kickstarting labor"

Seriously mom it's not a competition. She is being monitored for toxemia (preeclampsia) which would definitely encourage them to induce her early. My mom makes everything a competition between me and my kids vs all my cousins and their kids. My mom is the hardest person to please. 😞

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madrex3

Mind Yours

My mom is like that with me and my siblings it’s annoying

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jenx

JenX

Good Lord. How about everybody go into labor on their own and qe celebrate each little life as they come into the world. Give us so much to be happy about in Feb and March.

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countrypeaches420

Adrienne Kark

I'm excited to meet my baby but I'm in no hurry. If I'm not in labor yet then she's obviously not ready and still growing and developing and she can take the time she needs. Pregnancy never lasts forever so she will obviously be born. My mom has always been so pushy. She just compares me to everyone and I will never live up to this crazy standard she set so I dont even try. Doesnt stop her from giving her opinion tho.

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harleyquinn13

Harley Quinn

My mom was like this with my oldest when I hit 36 weeks. She was constantly texting me daily about it and telling me to get things going. It was honestly the most annoying thing.

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countrypeaches420

Adrienne Kark

I understand the excitement and I wouldn't be as bothered if that's all it was but it's the fact she makes everything out to be a competition and compares me to them. Whatever my cousins kids are all doing she tells me how behind my kids are because they aren't doing those things. She tells me my 5 year old should be reading by himself by now because a relatives 5 year old is. Okay good for them but you cant compare kids because our situations are 100% different and every child is different. She makes me feel guilty and tells me how they are going to raise their child. Good for them. I'm glad they are having their first soon and I'm excited for them but I am having number 4 and obviously my kid isn't suffering because I use parents choice over pampers. 🤦‍♀️

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harleyquinn13

Harley Quinn

@countrypeaches42013, moms 🤦‍♀️ I’m sorry. It’s hard. Mine is the same way.

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Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?