How do stay at home moms have more patience then dads? My fiancé will not even be home for an hour and get irritated…

I stay home and I barely have patience myself 🤷‍♀️

Hubs works 16 hour shifts and he comes home with more patience than me. He’ll play with our daughter right away or whatever. I literally have no idea how he does that. I just have a short fuse and always have. I’ve been working on it but it’s hard. Just depends on the type of person you are.

Idk I still don’t got patience 15 yrs later probley never will 😂🤦‍♀️ I just don’t

Cause when you're gone all day, dealin with the moron, crybabies at work, 40-50 hours a week, it's REALLY hard to come home and jump right back into the chaos, EVERYONE needs a few minutes to unwind before everyone is in their face asking a million questions.

We are accustomed to our children and know them individually as the little people they are. It's easier to deal with them when you see the build up to the tantrum or the root cause as compared to having adult noise all day and then walking into tantrums and screaming. I was home for 2.5 years and went back to work. I had to leave for 3-6 days at a time on average and when I got home, though I missed my girls the entire time, I was short with them and really had to check myself. Now I have been home since March last year and my patience has returned bc we are together full time. The more time you spend with a person and get to know them, the more you love them and bond with them, this giving you the desire to show grace and patience.

My man has zero patience I constantly have to tell him to chill he expects the kids to just sit down properly and act like adults lol. He’s getting better tho since he’s been home a lot due to covid lockdowns.

It can be stressful to come home to kids & their craziness after a long or difficult day at work.

My kids dad is the same way wen I take them over he’s already yelling at them within 30 minutes of them being there 😒 I be soo ready to pop him in his face he used to be a stay at home dad while I was working and he was still the same way .. so he jst doesn’t have the patience period

I think you learn patience. I work my husband stays home and he has way more patience with her then I do. It's harder when ur not used to it all day and then walk in to the hectic