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Miss_bubbles
Anyone have any experience of partner not wanting another baby? 2 children. 1 his (other hes been around since less then 1yr old)
With such a big age gap id love another but he's adamant no more. He says he only wanted 2 and he has 2 so that's it!
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jamie-leigh

I am the partner in this situation. After Theo Przemek wanted more, I didn't, Aniela was a surprise. Wouldn't change it for the world now but I won't be doing it again!

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toni_m

My husband has a 5 year old from a previous relationship and we have a 2 year old together. After we had our son he said he didn’t want anymore but I did so we eventually agreed to try again, sadly ended in a miscarriage so he was adamant after that that we wasn’t going to have anymore. But this month he’s surprised me and said he wants to try again later on in the year 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think it’s important to express the way you feel & hopefully you’ll be able to come to a compromise x

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karla22

I'm in the opposite situation! I always wanted 2+ kids and now I've got my 2 girls I am happy and don't want anymore but the oh always says wheres my son lol joking around and I'm like we are not having anymore I am done! 😂 xx

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miss_bubbles

I think if the youngest had come alot earlier I'd be fine. But I regret that tye huge age cap meant oldest is really lonely (I had a good relationship with my sibling, 4yrs apart) my partner also says he had a good relationship with his sister 6yrs apart.

Our gap is 10yrs so I feel like my youngest is going to be the same

Oldest is in secondary so has no interest etc and I desperately want a boy (I know there is no guarantee, but one more wouldn't hurt)

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karla22

@miss_bubbles I have a 9 year age gap with my sister and we were are close probably because I did most of the looking after her with my mum since she was born (her dad- my step dad was a sperm donor and did nothing). My 2 girls have a 4 year age gap and it is great! We tried for a 2 year age gap but it didn't happen, it just happened when the time was right I guess xx

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jamie-leigh

I am the partner in this situation. After Theo Przemek wanted more, I didn't, Aniela was a surprise. Wouldn't change it for the world now but I won't be doing it again!

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beebeejgill

My partner doesn’t want one currently ❤️🤷‍♀️

Maya isn’t his ☺️ xx

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kerryy23

I was in this situation. My OH has 5 previous and we have one together. At first he said he didn't want anymore I said that wasn't an option for me only having the one, it's taken some convincing him and he's came around.. I stopped my pill last week so here's hoping for baby number 2.
I'd have an honest and open conversation try not to nag as it may push the idea away, I've just mentioned it here and there. He wanted to be done by 40 and he's 38 now so that was a big factor in him agreeing, although it's taken around 2 years for us to get to this point lol x

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miss_bubbles

I literally think I have no chance! My eldest isn't his and obviously she's nearly 12yr old so our youngest took alot of convincing as he said he wanted a baby but was always not yet. When I'm ready etc. I eventually said look im prepared to walk etc and he finally came round but still had to wait 2yrs after he agreed! Then took 2+ yrs to have youngest. 1 mc and 1 mmc

I have come off the pill which we both agreed as this time round its made me super moody etc and no interest in sex
He knows there's a risk but still no

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kerryy23

@miss_bubbles if you're off the pill then he can't be that certain of no more children, how would he feel if you found out you were pregnant?

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miss_bubbles

@kerryy23 he said he'd rather me be off it than on it and moody and no interest! He makes sure its out in time lol

Hed probably blame me even though I've told him the risks

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lisao9313

Yeah im in this situation too, my Hubby says no more and I'm petfiried of regretting it. X

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miss_bubbles

Me too! We have plans to get married but I'm not sure anymore. I feel like everything regarding our relationship is on his terms x

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lisao9313

@miss_bubbles I will pm you xx

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stacey1991

@lisao9313 @miss_bubbles this is me. He has a 13yo and together we have a 2.5yo, I had a difficult time because he didnt help much, and he constantly asked for more and I kept saying no. I ended up losing ny job because of how tired was and I had a lot if negative associations with having my baby. But now hes 2.5 he would make an amazing big brother but OH said no more hes too old now. Part of me doesnt minds part of me thinks my LO is going to be a very bored and lonely child growing especially as we both work SO much all the time :/

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