I live in California. So my sons 1. Just recently his dad decided to come in his life. This would be his 3d weekend with him since he’s been born. (Court ordered every other weekend). But he makes every single this so difficult. (He’s a narcissist). Long story short my sons birthday is this weekend. And it didn’t cross my mind once that it was his dads weekend. I let him know that I would give him 2 weekends in a row. But he’s being difficult as always. My question is. Is letting him know good enough? Can a cop come and take my kid to him? I’m so confused. I don’t want to reschedule bc I’ve been planning forever. But his dad won’t ever agree.
If it’s court ordered you have to let them go regardless of the party if not you’ll be the one getting in trouble
You’ll have issues in court. You can always celebrate his birthday after of that is the case. Compromise.
@mylatorres092018 you'd have to let him go with if his father comes to get him sadly. Or you could be held in contempt and get in trouble I think jail time is a consequence.
If it’s court ordered you could possibly be in contempt for keeping him. But I’m not 100% on that
Yeah, non compliance on a custody order like that can equal fines or a weekend in jail for you. I wouldn’t risk it if he’s that level of difficult.