I live in California. So my sons 1. Just recently his dad decided to come in his life. This would be his 3d weekend with him since he’s been born. (Court ordered every other weekend). But he makes every single this so difficult. (He’s a narcissist). Long story short my sons birthday is this weekend. And it didn’t cross my mind once that it was his dads weekend. I let him know that I would give him 2 weekends in a row. But he’s being difficult as always. My question is. Is letting him know good enough? Can a cop come and take my kid to him? I’m so confused. I don’t want to reschedule bc I’ve been planning forever. But his dad won’t ever agree.