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Chicana♥️
Chicana♥️
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I hope I’m not the only momma about to have a meltdown I feel like a horrible mom My oldest is 16 and ever since I had…

I hope I’m not the only momma about to have a meltdown

I feel like a horrible mom

My oldest is 16 and ever since I had him I’ve never had me time

The job I had would let me take my son so never ever did I have to leave him with a sitter

Now I have 2 more and same thing happened

I’m my moms caretaker so that means my kids are with me 24/7

The husband helps me with the kids whenever he’s in the mood

But I still have chores to do in the house

At this point I’m desperate to have some me time away from my house

I feel like a horrible mom daughter and wife for wanting that me time 🥺😭

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mims

Mims

You have a lot on your plate and alone time/ break is good for our health and mind. Maybe sit your husband down and just say I need two hours to just go. Get a pedi, massage or facial. Or just wander around a store. Then make it a thing once a month just a little time away lunch with a friend or something to get you out of the house and feel renewed

chicana

Chicana♥️

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’ve tried making my husband understand but he doesn’t he think I want to go out and have an affair

He says if I want me time to go outside in the backyard and feed the dogs and chickens

We just had a huge fight about 45 minutes ago

I want to cry out of anger but he thinks that I’m weak because I’m crying

At this point I feel like I’m better off alone with my kids

forever_outnumbered

Adrianna Nondorf

Мама четверых детей

@queenbitch, no offense but he sounds like a POS you don’t deserve that shit.

chicana

Chicana♥️

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’m starting to think the same thing about him

boymama523

Bye

I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. Mommin ain’t easy. If you are in this state then you probably shouldn’t be trying to conceive. If you’re overwhelmed with the workload of the 3 you have then strongly consider waiting to have another. Not trying to discourage you, I just know people who have more babies and it just makes their issues worse. Try to get outside and stay active. Take showers regularly and get ready to help you feel better.

chicana

Chicana♥️

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Problem is everything was ok till I got my IUD removed

We don’t have a perfect relationship but we have our ups and downs but nothing major

All hell broke lose when I got my IUD out

It’s like a switch went off

To be honest I don’t know what the hell happened

I feel confused

boymama523

Bye

@queenbitch, gotcha, sounds like a hormone thing. Talk to your doctor I’m sure they can help you!

chicana

Chicana♥️

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

the thing is I’m not the problem

The problem is him

He started changing once I got it removed

kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

Get rid of the narcissist obviously ...he’s doing something if he’s always blaming you that’s guilty behavior tell him get some counseling weirdo that’s what they do try and flip it because they know there doing shit 💯

chicana

Chicana♥️

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@cheetahgurl420, I already did and it’s like he doesn’t care about us and specially the kids

Si I’m just giving up

Im emotionally exhausted

kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

@queenbitch, it’s easier alone honestly I realized that before lol

chicana

Chicana♥️

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@cheetahgurl420, I have to agree .. I was a single mom for 13 years

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?