So question
Has anybody successfully not be able to give there seconds or third child like cookies fast food etc .
After seeing the effect after giving it to your your first children ?
For example: my son only drink chocolate milk :( he will drink white milk and cereal but never by it self ) with my daughter I’m trying to not give her NONE .
My son loves cookies , I’m trying to not give my daughter none !!
Certain foods you just don’t give to young children.
A treat here and there but you start teaching healthy eating habits at a young age. This isn’t something they pick up from other kids..this is something they picked up from you.
You can start changing their diets by incorporating healthier snacks.
Start being a little more strict with snacks.
“Eat this or don’t. The choice is yours”
If they’re hungry they’ll eat it, if not. No snack for you.
Just because your son loves cookies doesn’t mean give him cookies.
You said it yourself. There are healthier alternatives. You got this.
It all starts with you, take accountability.
Since your son is going to have chocolate milk and cookies at school I'd say only give cookies as a last resort when it comes to both kids if you don't want 2 cookie addicts lol
I say moderation is key. Let them have cookies for babies/toddlers or "healthy" cookies. Maybe only allow them cookies when you bake them yourself. You can have your son help and your daughter too when she's old enough.I don't let my daughter have cookies with chocolate in them. We mostly give her Graham crackers instead. She doesn't drink milk with me. But her dad gives her chocolate chip cookies and strawberry milk with red dye 40 🤢 I'd never give her that but its moderation so.
Idk but this post made me want some cookies and milk 😂😋
If you arent buying it and its not in the house, then it solves that problem. Cant give him something you dont buy.
Everything in moderation is fine, amd tantrums shouldnt be rewarded with junk food.
That’s gonna be a hard habit to break if you don’t start ASAP. /: gonna need a lot of patience.
I only give my kids cookies if they're down for sharing 🤷🏻♀️ they constantly turn down cookies now 😉
I mean, I give them cookies here and there without having to share, but the majority of the time cookies mean share with Dad or Mom.
Mhmmm that’s niceee cause 9/10 time they won’t wanna share Im assuming
@mamaof2soon Yep exactly. My oldest doesn't really enjoy sweets anymore anyways, she'd rather have fruit. Son is starting to be the same way, but even then I limit. Natural sugar turns them into wall bouncers.
@krystalft.4, ahhh imma take that!!!!
Im a fruity my daughter she going through that if she see food she wants it , it’s kinda bad but good she won’t eat jar food I have to make her fresh food every day
Omg y’all bitching about cookies and milk 😂🤦♀️ they are kids let them have a cookie and some milk everything is unhealthy even our veggies are sprayed with cancerous chemicals. The fast food I wouldn’t eat all the time but damn. Lol
@mamaof2soon, and that’s where your problem is. That’s all he has to do to get his way all the time, be violent....
@whohidthebread, not violet but woud you rather sit on the hospital with a concussion or just give them the cookie
He’s not like that now but at 2 he was because he couldn’t express his self
@mamaof2soon, oh I think that’s normal terrible 2s lol my daughter did the same we would just have to let her calm down somewhere she definitely didn’t get no damn cookies 😂 for acting like that.
My son loves white milke and cheese, fruits and vegetables I don't really give him any fast food maybe on special occasions but that's about it
I wanna say we are good on fast food , me not so much lol but he only eats it if we out maybe every Saturday and the most he will have is a burger or nuggets
Certain foods you just don’t give to young children.
A treat here and there but you start teaching healthy eating habits at a young age. This isn’t something they pick up from other kids..this is something they picked up from you.
You can start changing their diets by incorporating healthier snacks.
Start being a little more strict with snacks.
“Eat this or don’t. The choice is yours”
If they’re hungry they’ll eat it, if not. No snack for you.
Just because your son loves cookies doesn’t mean give him cookies.
You said it yourself. There are healthier alternatives. You got this.
It all starts with you, take accountability.
Oh I do that’s why I’m trying to fix my daughter
My son was 2 and he was horrible with tantrum he wanted things that he couldn’t say so the therapist told me to keep everything low for him , so w.e he wanted to was able to get , he will eat fruits veggies etc . But he has to have some kind of cookies once a day and his milk every morning and before bed .
I thought it was cute when he was once with a brown face from the Oreos and hen I stopped it for s while and then when he got about 2 in order to not have a tantrum I just gave it to him but I regret it now and my daughter I rather her eat fruits and see cookies as like ehhh if that makes sense
@mamaof2soon, you need to be consistent . That means all of your children need to start eating healthier not just one.
Looks to me your daughter is only 7 months old which means there should be no fixing. This starts and ends with your son.
Also, giving your child none can make it worse by making her want them more.
Exactly so im tryna figure out what’s best to do before she get one and all hell breaks loose
@mamaof2soon, use common sense. If you eat a cookie is it ALL you want it eat?
You should be trying to fix the situation with your son. Cookies and chocolate milk in moderation. Not all the time or whenever he wants.
As you stated above, kids eat what others eat. Set the example with your son.
@mamaof2soon, no. It’s fine to keep them in the house, but limit it. Chocolate milk on OCCASION. Same with cookies.
How often are you giving them these foods? You are going to make you're children overweight
@unicornprincessx3, why would I do that if I can use my stamps 🤔 and then I can put my card right back in my lv bag :) and walk out proud with my steak
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@unicornprincessx3, I don’t think she was talking to you and even if she was stay in your lane Is really nothing lol

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Omg y’all bitching about cookies and milk 😂🤦♀️ they are kids let them have a cookie and some milk everything is unhealthy even our veggies are sprayed with cancerous chemicals. The fast food I wouldn’t eat all the time but damn. Lol