😩 I feel you. I try to detangle it damp & finger comb or use a wide tooth comb to save myself from all the pain & then braid it or twist it so its easier to deal with. I have 4c &4b hair
Um I use this like wig brush and I use any detangler in my house at the moment mixed with coconut oil current detangler is cantu kids with coconut oil works really good with our texture 4a/4b
What brush are you using? How do you detangle. My hair is 3c. My daughter's is a mix of 3c and 4a so we need a good detangling brush and I found the tangle teezer doesn't do much but the Michel Mercier is great and gets through tangles really well.