Thank God I missed this mess or else I would have had to captain for KNC. That's not something I want to do but you da shït Braunx for biting the bullet on this one ✌?️ ?

Also, Really Serena? Nancy? LAME. Omar Abudallat is where it's at....can you tell I had an islami wedding ?

Don't want to jump in on this But I have to say I loathe when someone equates getting married without the big fancy wedding to simply getting a "piece of paper". I do not plan on having a big wedding, my fiancé and I are eloping because we feel for us as a couple it would make it more special. Whether you have the big wedding, a small wedding, elope, or simply walk into a courthouse to be married- it should never be equated with just getting a piece of paper! @knc I hope you realize getting married and marriage as a whole is so much more than that. That fact that you're comparing being engaged to being married tells me otherwise though...

Sorry ladies I did not look into the facts of this case at all. I heard about it through fb which I think is where I found the meme. To those I offended I apologize. I'm not going to dd this though. Bb never forgets.

Holy cow, this went a little...crazy.

I by no means meant anything offensive towards you or your church. I was just completely confused as I've never heard of a church doing anything like that. I don't remember anything being done at mine when I got engaged , but all churches are different.

I don't think all of the pps were being rude in their questions either. Nobody had heard of it, so what better way to understand than to ask.

Oh. When you said the church sees it the same as marriage, I thought you meant you as well.

I understand pp has been rude before and made a rude comment on this thread, but I feel like a bunch of adult women ganging up on her via the Internet makes you just as bad...just read her bull crap comments and move on, it's sad when people get bullied on an app invented for women to come together and help each other.

I don't like Kim Kardashian at all, but this is uncalled for. Just put yourself in her situation.

Okay, so I'm genuinely curious. So you guys held a ceremony at your church, to promise to eventually commit to each other for life. But the ceremony somehow makes it okay in their eyes for you to move in together unmarried, be intimate sexually unmarried, and have a child unmarried. So...what is a promise to eventually commit? I couldn't be with someone who wanted those things with me, but wasn't willing to marry me. Going to school shouldn't change anything, I don't understand that either. What are they celebrating, the baby, or your choice to not commit?

Edit; I just saw you said they don't support sex outside of marriage. Yet another curiosity of mine, how could they call it two becoming one if there is no marriage?

So back to Kim...

Yeaaaah.. no.. everyone thinks its some big joke because it was kim K but if it happened to you it wouldnt be so damn funny.

When I heard this I thought it was bogus or something her mom "staged". Once I heard it was true I was surprised. This isn't a laughing matter regardless of who it is.

I'm so lost?

Whoa, when did BB care so much about premarital sex and babies out of wedlock? And what does that have to do with this meme?

Wait how did the op get to this lol

The forgiving thing is confusing to y'all because you don't believe in God. When you fully research a religion and read the religious text, it starts to make sense.

If your child does wrong, you punish them right? But you still love and forgive them, right? Something like that but deeper.

Eta: lol @ how this post just switched from Kanye

That wasn't attitude sweetly but ok haha.... second I didn't imply anything... but you have a great morning and try and get some sleep it helps being sick ?

I think its also the fact that she used the term "legally" while trying to maintain that her relationship (not married/pregnant) with her church is seen as being equal to marriage. She had a blessing done. That's all she had to say. Its offensive that she thinks she's better than everyone due to her "legal engagement." No girl, your pregnancy is still frowned upon by your God but I hear he's very forgiving.. So there's that.

Braunx you said yourself blessing something is very different than considering them the same thing. At one point that is what she stated. But either way this is like beating a dead horse.

Who said every church was the same? I didn't read that anywhere... nor did I say parents were...so go ahead and take that comment somewhere else...

Braunx I actually feel it's the other way around. I no longer go to church but I did attend a Christian church and still believe in God. To me it's disrespectful to say being engaged is the same as being married. I don't see anyone bashing her church or God. Theirs no way a Christian church that follows the Bible would consider those two the same.

Asking a simple question and being a smartarse are two different things...

On another note... did we ever figure out who pajama was? Was it KNC? I can see her doing something like that..

Also, isn't that ironic about "god" braunx? So many sins but he forgives everything but your in trouble for sinning but who cares because you'll be forgiven but he doesn't like it? Religion makes no sense to me.

*this is in no way disrespecting anybody who believes in God or religion. Just my own view of confusion.

**how come nobody has ever heard about this church knc? I'm sure if we knew what kind of church this was, it would make more sense to us. Don't hide it. Any form of Christianity that I have ever heard of, would never do this. So very interested to learn something new. And I'm not being disrespectful, I'm simply just curious.

Alrighty here's my 2 cents... I don't think her church nor God are being bashed I've done nothing but read these comments and being a believer myself.... I wouldn't go to a church like that.. honestly the questions asked are very legit as what she's saying doesn't make since... yes God is forgiving but to say your church had a "legal" engagement is weird never heard of it myself anyways. Premarital sex is not just looked past by getting "legally" engaged in fact most Christian parents would make their children get "actually" (since we're using terms loosely around here) married in the courts and have a ceremony in the church. Ok 2 cents done ✌?

So much drama today. And most of it has been over irrelevant shat. BB has gone mad.

No one is bashing her. I think the questions we are asking are legit questions/concerns.

Randi ??

I don't think she will have a different perspective. That's the scary part lol. Oh well it'll make juicy drama on BB. Keep on keeping on girly

Knc is 18. I'm sure she will have a different perspective when she's much older.

??☕️? well this is the most entertainment I've had in awhile :)

Edit: sorry I forgot my pickle but it's here now OMG SOMEONE NEEDS TO WRITE APPLE THERES NO PICKLE EMOJI! Unless I'm blind which is possible

Engaged the same as married?

? Can't decide if I find that extremely disrespectful to marriage in general or just hilarious!

Can I be legally single then?

Milk chocolate ??

But don't worry I saved enough for the cake ??????

@mihz and you just now told me!???? What kind of icing?

@McKenna I just bought our icing and took two bites with a spoon and now my stomach hurts ?

Like that 90 day finave show Lol Are they still together?

@haters, yes, her visa was for 6 months, and after the wedding they submitted the marriage certificate so she can stay.

Legally engaged - check

Tasteless kanye meme - check

Pickles - check

Thanks for the laughs ladies! Gnite!

Elehna it's not even the op who is "legally engaged". ?? this thread is not even about what the op posted. ???

But even then on the visa comment don't they have a certain amount of time to get married to make it legal or else homegirl goes back to her country?

Just jumping in, then right out. I know of "legal" engagements in a way to obtain a visa. For example, a friend of mine married a girl from Ukraine. She came over on a fiancée visa so I guess technically they were legally engaged in order for her to legally come here. Other than that, I think op does not understand the meaning of the word "legal". If she had used "blessed", "church approved", etc, it wouldn't have been so confusing.

ETA- oops, not op. @knc. Darn, she's all over this thread so I assumed without looking.

I'm trying to figure out what's going on here, but my eyes are tired.

Mckena clearly I mean getting legally married is just a piece of paper after all. ?

You ladies make my night lol ?

Clearly your church is doing it wrong @haters lol

currently eating a pickle because of the pickle comment ?

Serena the pastors wife at the church I attended in LA was supa fiesty! Lol I love that woman. We didn't believe being engaged and married was the same tho.

@serenas I love you!!!

@rocky I just ate a huge slice of pumpkin cheesecake.. it was so great

I guess op wasn't joking about "leaving this here", shorty bounce on us without looking back. ?

Rocky I'm pregnant and I would love a pickle lol

I ate a giant pickle and a Butterfinger shake, and I'm not pregnant.

Deb don't ask anymore questions she might change her story again. ?

the story really does not add up but still, none of us were they to confirm if it really did happen or not. sooo, I don't agree with making a joke about it ?

Well dang knc, u r on a roll tonight aren't u.... Lol

Thank you @knc ?

Okay your church just celebrated your engagement. You are trying to make it seem like they married you or something.

I agree 100% with what deb said. Thats honestly what it sounds like.

So we went from legal engagement to a celebration of engagement coupled with the support from the church. Like two ends of the scale here, but got it. ??

@knc you definitely need all the support you can get in your life.. That's for sure

Coitus ? haven't heard that in a while deb

Honestly if your already pregnant and engaged just get married through the courts. Your parents basically support you. So it will be a long time before you can afford that extravagant wedding. I am sure it's is more important in any church to actually be married then engaged. Your trying to make it seem like your church makes engagement equal to marriage.I highly doubt that. If you read the Bible you cannot tell me those two are equal at all.

No one is disrespecting your church. These ladies are just asking questions.

@knc Not everyone on this thread believes in the same god, or any god at all. So your god is not all of our god. ?

I also don't see anyone "disrespecting" you. These ladies are just asking questions and giving opinions. Just like my opinion is that it makes no sense for a church to officiate an engagement. *shrugs* Oh ?

I don't think anybody is disrespecting your church. I think they're asking legitimate questions based on your response to what legal engagement is through the recognition of your church.

Okay now I get what you are saying that is not being legally engaged. They just blessed your engagement?

Mckena that's exactly what I was thinking. Its like a blessing so they cn freely have sex out of wedlock I guess Lol

So if god forbid you guys broke up, what do they do then? "Legally separate" you guys?

So your church condones you sleeping together. I guess it's okay if your "legally engaged" lol gosh girl you kill me!!!!

It's hard to understand because it makes no sense!!

I think I just saw my brain ?

How are you married before you get the paper and before you say I do?!?! I am so confused. So your church rather you be "legally engaged" and treat it as marriage then actually legally married? Thats a first.

I think it was only like $40 for us to get married at the courthouse. We literally got married at the courthouse and then threw a ceremony later.

I really don't understand the whole thing with your church though. I agree with @squiggins, you're engaged and the church knows about it. Lol

I just can't with PP comments

And dude, marriage is not just a facking piece of paper. I cringe when people say that. OH. MY. GOSH. ?

@serena I'm so ignorant to these things ? I apologize! Thanks for enlightening me though!

Wait what happened?

How can you not afford to be married? Its really not that expensive to go to the court house and get legally married. In my state is 70 something dollars.

Then you're not legally engaged. You're engaged and your church knows about it.

Engagement is not recognized the same as marriage. Marriage is you vowing in the presence of God (or whatever other higher power you believe in according to your religion) or in front of someone legally ordained that you take one another for the rest of your lives. Simply having a recognition ceremony at your nondenominational church does not make you LEGALLY engaged. Did you have a certificate filled out and send to your county's courthouse to be filed away?

@serena your case is different because of your religion and I realize that. I'm just not so sure about knc's.

Not to be rude, but what kind of church do you attend? Just curious.

What religion do you follow, knc?

@knc why haven't you left BB yet? So does that mean since you're legally engaged you have the same rights and benefits as married people? Nope you don't.. Go somewhere else please

?? at pp and this post.

I don't like the girl as far as I can throw her, but she didn't deserve even a minute of this.

This is so tasteless. To me this is just another form of victim shaming.

Smh. This isn't funny.

This is disgusting. If it was staged it will come out eventually, if not she has to be severely traumatized and sh*t like this isn't so funny. Fake or not how does it have any weight in your life?

I think you should take this down. I'm sure you wouldn't find it funny if this happened to you or to a close family member

Awe, pretty lame, OP.

I kinda feel really bad for Kim. I was reading an article the other day about how Kris has been paranoid that people have been following the family around lately.

I get that they're famous and its part of the gig but nobody should ever feel unsafe in their own home/hotel room/etc. ?

Of course knc would find this funny ?

Let the police decide if it really happened or not. It's no one else's place to just assume and make jokes.

Cthu exactly!!! Thats what the news said today, it dont add up

TASTELESS.

This isn't funny at all. I can't imagine what she went through so sad.

Not cool ?

There is no right time. This isn't funny at all. ??

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This is not going to go well. She was robbed and tied down. She was worried she was going to be raped and murdered. I know, so hilarious the joke practically writes itself.

I don't find this funny

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