I’m having such a hard time making a decision that should be pretty easy to make 🤦🏻♀️ my aunt wants to take Dakota to the zoo this weekend and she offered for me to go too but I know she would absolutely LOVE to just spend the day with Dakota. She’s never just spent alone time with Kota cause I’m always too worried to leave her with anyone other than my mom. I know my aunt would never do anything to put Dakota in any kind of harm but I can’t calm my anxiety about it. I keep thinking what if she doesn’t fasten her “back pack leash” on tight enough or what if Dakota climbs out of the stroller and gets her or what if she lets Kota have a snack in the car and gets choked.. I mean it’s all really irrational and I know it could happen to literally anyone including me but it’s just so nerve wrecking knowing they’d be about 45 mins to an hour away from me... I really want to let the two of them have that bonding time because most of my favorite childhood memories are from this woman. She’s by far the best aunt! She absolutely spoils Dakota and loves to just be around her. I just keep holding them back from their bonding time because of my own personal anxiety 🙄 it annoys me how anxious I am with such normal situations sometimes 🤦🏻♀️🙄
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

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She'll be okay. Maybe compromise and just ride with them up and be in the area while they go to the zoo and you do your own thing. That way if something does happen you'll be near by.