I’m having such a hard time making a decision that should be pretty easy to make 🤦🏻 ♀ my aunt wants to take Dakota to…

I’m having such a hard time making a decision that should be pretty easy to make 🤦🏻‍♀️ my aunt wants to take Dakota to the zoo this weekend and she offered for me to go too but I know she would absolutely LOVE to just spend the day with Dakota. She’s never just spent alone time with Kota cause I’m always too worried to leave her with anyone other than my mom. I know my aunt would never do anything to put Dakota in any kind of harm but I can’t calm my anxiety about it. I keep thinking what if she doesn’t fasten her “back pack leash” on tight enough or what if Dakota climbs out of the stroller and gets her or what if she lets Kota have a snack in the car and gets choked.. I mean it’s all really irrational and I know it could happen to literally anyone including me but it’s just so nerve wrecking knowing they’d be about 45 mins to an hour away from me... I really want to let the two of them have that bonding time because most of my favorite childhood memories are from this woman. She’s by far the best aunt! She absolutely spoils Dakota and loves to just be around her. I just keep holding them back from their bonding time because of my own personal anxiety 🙄 it annoys me how anxious I am with such normal situations sometimes 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄