Deleted my Facebook and messenger... why does my boyfriend gotta be Insecure🙄🙄 going on 2 years next week.. I never cheated never did anything and still get blamed smh
Nope. Nope. Leave. Toxic ass hell. My kids father would tell me to delete my Facebook but I never listened to him. He always accused me of cheating and made me feel bad because he said it was my fault that he was acting the way he was and cheating. Thank God, I left his ass. I had to deal with his shit for almost 4 years and I just couldn't do it anymore.
Girl. Leave his ass, he clearly doesn't trust you and trust me it will get worse. Doesnt matter if y'all have kids together. I would rather be single than to have my kids seeing me suffer.
I would've walked my happy as out of the relationship instead of deleting social media. A relationship needs trust and it sounds like he has no trust for you.
My best advice after reading your comments. Leave him. Take him off your lease. Give him his 30 days. Set up a visitation schedule. Get everything done through the courts. A baby doesn't mean you have to stay.
He's still on that nonsense? I remember when you were pregnant you used to post about him accusing you. Girl, he might be the one who's cheating.
Yup even when I was pregnant.. he was telling me the baby wasn’t his smh
@meka2013 and do you really wanna be with someone like that? You deserve to be happy.
Nope. Nope. Leave. Toxic ass hell. My kids father would tell me to delete my Facebook but I never listened to him. He always accused me of cheating and made me feel bad because he said it was my fault that he was acting the way he was and cheating. Thank God, I left his ass. I had to deal with his shit for almost 4 years and I just couldn't do it anymore.
Girl. Leave his ass, he clearly doesn't trust you and trust me it will get worse. Doesnt matter if y'all have kids together. I would rather be single than to have my kids seeing me suffer.
Nope. No trust, no relationship and this sounds toxic from what you post. I’d end it, your happiness is not worth it.
I’ve told him I lm not happy cause there is no trust let alone I put my location on his phone just to please him smh I work doubles and still get blamed for not being at work smh I’ve told him this is way I left my first daughter father for the same thing smh
@meka2013, your location is on his phone? Oh hell no. Nothing about this is healthy or OK, whatsoever. And still blames you...he’s the one probably cheating. While you are working doubles smh. RUN 🏃🏾♀️
Hmmm me and my SO don’t even have each other on social
Media , never been thru his phone and he never been thru mine from
When we met we spoke about that if there’s no trust there’s always going to be issues .... however if either of us it’s feeling like the other is being sneaky we have the green light to go thru each other’s phone .... every relationship is different but without a valid reason I wouldn’t have deleted anything ...
That’s what I was gonna say I’ve dealt with something similar and when it came down to everything I found out he was flirting/ and cheating but blaming me and acting all insecure when I never did anything period not even to lead him to believe. Men are sneaky, be careful.
@meka2013 men can still find time to cheat ull be surprised
@bianca787, I was going to say, yeah if they want to, they could make time. Sadly.
@meka2013, stay confident in yourself, do not let anyone make you feel like you have to live a certain way to ease their minds on something you have not even thought of doing.
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@icebergahead, and that’s what I’ve been doing those past two years... I’ve always done things or try to please his mind and I still get blamed..
Shit I got rid of mine about 6 years ago in October we be together for 9 years and he is still on that shit.
@meka2013, so why is it that you continue? He started this behavior at 3 months? This can escalate to physical violence. Trust me.
It starts with insecurity. Then anger and cutting off anything outside of your life like internet for example. Then anger leads to breaking stuff and apologizing each time. Then to hitting you. Apologizing each time. And so on. You do not deserve this.
This scares me
@icebergahead, this one no cause I honestly have no one to talk to about this relationship...
@icebergahead idk I never look though his phone I figure he be smart enough to get rid of it anyways 🤷♀️
You don’t have anything without trust. I would tell him if he doesn’t treat me to hit the road. Why even be with me. 🤷♀️
I’ve asked him do he trust me and he says yes but then I have to deal with this smh I’ve asked him that to why be with me and he says cause he crazy 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:

My poor little man got rushed in to a&e struggling to breathe never been so scared!

This is never going to happen. 🙄🙄
Nope. No trust, no relationship and this sounds toxic from what you post. I’d end it, your happiness is not worth it.