So my lovely husband 🙄, says when a man gets home from work he shouldn't have to watch his own children while I cook. He shouldn't have to do anything because he works. So who here agrees with this? I sure dont
❥LeslieМама дочки (5 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
Honestly if I was a stay at home mom I wouldn't care. I am willing to do anything if I could stay home. My husband helps though, I am usually finishing up dinner by the time he gets home. He gets our drinks and sets table. we both work and our daughter is old enough and independant so she plays or watches a show before dinner. I would expect him to help with the baby when he comes.
AngelaМама четверых детей
Sounds like my husband and it makes me so mad it’s ridiculous!
AndyМама троих детей
He also believes that most men don't watch their kids when they get home from work lol🤣
ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
He helped make that baby/those babies so he has an obligation to help. Regardless of his dumbass opinion.
I'd say a cool down time is okay but he already gets that time driving home.
He didn't want to help take care of his kids, he should've wrapped it, imo.
AndyМама троих детей
I agree completely lol. Yeah he gets a break in the car then he stays in the bathroom when he gets home, sometimes a half hour. So that's his break
Jacinda Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
For me it depends on what time of day it is .if it’s late at night (11-12am) i try not to let him do too much but my daughter should be chilled tf out. If it’s like mid day . Idgaf . I will straight ignore them and do what I’m doing because it’s for him/them in the end and our daughter is self sufficient for most of whatever she wants.
Screw that! I work more than my husband. He doesn't give me a break when I get home. If he wants to eat he can either help with the kids or he can cook!
BakingDaddy Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)
Throw the whole husband out and start over.
AmeerahМама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
😭😭😭😂
AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I cook hours after mine gets home and mine will sit there while both boys are up my ass pulling dishes out of the cabinets untill I flip out and he comes over and grabs them 😂
AndyМама троих детей
Well we have a tiny ass kitchen in this condo. Enough room for one person. I go nuts when I'm doing things in kitchen and all the kids go in there, especially if I'm using the oven and stove top
AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@ladyfreyja, yes omg I hate that
kammyМама сына (2 года)
I think having a break when he gets home is reasonable. half hour to unwind by himself. you're not wrong though!
Juju M.Мама двоих (младенец)
Absolutely not. He can cook if he'd like 😆
I let my hubby get comfortable and kinda get out of “work mode” & usually if I haven’t made dinner for him already he spends time with our daughter while I make something for him.
Nicole MatthewsМама троих детей
No ma'am. If he wants food... he can watch his kids while I cook. Other wise.. he can eat cereal every night.
need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
(Thread Closed) Nighttime feedings So I got this awesome bottle warmer that has a cooling chamber so you don't have to go to the fridge for a bottle. My husband told his co-worker about it and she asked why we needed it if I'm going to breastfeed. He said its for when I start pumping so he can help with feedings at night. She then said he shouldn't have to get up and help because I don't work.
stay at home wives/moms do you agree that our spouses shouldn't help around the house or baby because they work? I feel that we're in this together but my mom made the comment that my husband works and he shouldn't have to stay up with the baby
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸·Мама троих детей
Wow. I don’t even honestly have words for that. He sounds like a real piece of work.
·1 отметок «Нравится»1·Ответить