What I learned about the people I have in my circle...literally every.single.person.
I started school. No congrats. No wanting details, some didnt even respond to it. And some just said aw nice, or cool.
But when me and my husband argue or theres something going on in my life negatively.
They all are messaging nonstop,calling, wanting details, etc
Now I'm not even excited that I started back school or getting on a track or doing something positive with my life or to better my household's income...and thats not the type of circle I need.
I'm glad I noticed this now. I'm just better off without people in my life. Humans really do suck and can really bring you down.
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And congratulations! What a big step!
I’ve had “friends” like that. True friends will cry with you and be happy for your successes even when they’re failing❤️
@icestorm1123, I tend to gravitate toward people who are like your friends. They disappeared when I didn’t have as much drama and always end up lashing out at me when they’re going through something hard as if I have never been through hardship. It’s very upsetting but I’ve learned to not count on them. I always try to be there for people but I won’t have them in my inner circle. Life is too short.
@phoebesmommy that sounds like my friends lol, & drama or something negative is what kept them talking to me, if i had nothing negative about my lofe to say, thwy wouldn't really speak. & it sucks because i so really wanted friends.
@icestorm1123, you’ll find them. Just keep being a friend. Are you sure the ppl you told aren’t just going thru something and are maybe distracted? That can happen too.
I’m sorry. 😕 That’s awesome that you started school though! ❤️
Sorry you have a circle like that. 😔 genuinely. When you are at school, try to take the opportunity to develop new friendships with those around you. People who are trying to better themselves. And ditch those "friends" who only want your drama. You only need a few good friends - the ones who will be happy in your successes and hurt with you in your pain.
Good people are out there - I promise. Not sure where your current "circle" originated from but they don't sound like quality people. It's never too late to drop the negativity and baggage.
Thank you so much for this, & youre right, one friend I connected with through my exbestfriend, one from church and the other from when I was working, its hard to find at least 1 good person. Just one and I will be happy with that.
It's sad that so many people are like that... you keep pushing yourself to do great in school and better your life and your family's life. That's most important. Negative people like that don't need to be in your life. I've been there with a negative circle and I let it stop me from pushing forward to better things... I'm glad you realized this sooner than I did. Keep your head up!
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Be proud of yourself ! It s great to see a woman take ahold of her education and the great job you’ll get from that ,many women sadly don’t like to see other’s doing well in life by good choices You make for yourself and your children “at the end of the day that’s all that matter friend s come and go and especially life is too short to be around people even if family who don’t better themselves