When a man so call breaks up w u ur whole mindframe just switches. I mean i cant speak for everyone but my mind just did…
When a man so call breaks up w u ur whole mindframe just switches. I mean i cant speak for everyone but my mind just did a 360. 3 months ago i was comfortable at my job, comfortable at the place i live, working on my credit bt ehhh not really. Now im enrolled in school, i have paid 2 collections down, and really going hard at my credit.
Anyway, last night he came into the room (he hasnt slept w me in weeks) and goes it sucks being sick and u have no one to cuddle w and i chuckled a little bit and then i farted because i knew it would get him to leave lol. He goes wow all u had to say was ur not down to cuddle w me. 🤣🤣
Like i said, ur mindframe switches. I dont want to cuddle w u, i dont wanna have sex, i dont even want u to touch me at all really. I just want to be, while im here and dont try to be my man again when i graduate and continue to get my PhD working as some kind of school administrator. Nxt time i cry itll be in a Rolls Royce.
A.·
Hey girl:!!!!!!!
Asya ♡··
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)
Hey love welcome back!!
A.··
@aussiexjane, thanks.!!!! I lost your number. Well the kid made me reset me phone so I came back to reconnect.! I can see you dude is giving you hell 🖕🏽
Nothere·
“Next time I cry it’ll be a rolls Royce” ayyyeeeeee 👑
Asya ♡··
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)
@yesica i think hes going thru a midlife crisis and posibbly depression and a little bit of past issues he says he cant get over. We havent talked about divorce like at all. When i told him i was done w him he told me maybe i would find a nice home for me and the boys after i finish school. I wont be done for 2 years so we would probably still be in this house for 2 mor years and in that time we dont know what will happen. I told him ill always be here i dont want another man and im nt looking so the decision is his. When he told me i was too dependent on him he was right. Before he came along my mom sheltered me so i didnt have to work. I went to school collected financial aid and blew it off. My mom bought my cars and paid my car notes everything and then when she passed he took over. I stopped focusing on school and started to depend more on him because he had more money than me. Yea i worked but when i 1st got this job i told myself i would nt be here 5 years. Its been 4 years. If he died i would not know how to function w 2 kids. Hes so right like i lost ambition but im not doing this for us. My mom used to say fck these boys go to school and get ur career. Over 2 years my husband started making money like good money so i was seriously putting it off. When he told me that i was like u fucker ur right. And enrolled the very nxt morning. But this is for me. Ill be here but if he wants to move on ill be secure without him. Before i met him i had goals and ambition and when he came along i started chasing him. That time is over. Tonight is the night MY future begins as i embark on this journey to a school administrator w a PhD. He better stop playing w me lol i know my capabilities
Nothere··
@aussiexjane, I’m sure you guys won’t divorce. Marriage isn’t easy and as time goes by you change and so does him so maybe it’s just change you guys are experiencing
Asya ♡··
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)
@yesica that could be true. We will see where this takes us
callatelaboca·
I laughed so hard when I read the fart part 💀💀 Good for you girl keep it moving
Asya ♡··
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)
Lmao 🤣🤣🤣 thank u love.