Sometimes it takes awhile for me to face the facts but I just have to come to the realization that my baby's dad will never be the kind of guy that will get up in the middle of the night to get me ice cream or rub my feet when they're sore or go out of his way to get me a frappe from McDonalds when im craving it...or even wake up in the morning and make me breakfast unless I'm crying and begging him to.. its sad but I'm happy for all you ladies out there who have a man like that... This is the idiot i chose 🤦🤦🤦🤦
O he will have a shock really soon because im getting tired of his shit. Its like having another kid in the house. Cook this, rub my back etc. He got me Fu*#ed up. Wait until this baby comes, no more nice girl. Im being easy cuz i dont wanna stress but rn but just wait on it ⏳⏳⏳... Thanks for your understanding 😘
@lee_lee_26, yeah hun you’re definitely not alone here. Man I told my husband straight up if we’re gonna have a 4th baby IM LAYING MY ASS DOWN FOR A MONTH until I recover! He didn’t argue with me and he apologized for the way he acted before. Girl you’re right husbands are just another kid to look after 🙄
@lee_lee_26, it definitely is easier said then done. I’ve done it and am way happier now. Only regret is not doing it sooner.
Mine really didn’t change until after we had our third kid. After my second was born we had to go back to the hospital to have her blood checked. I was 5 days postpartum and was limping in pain because I had lifted my son the day before. My husband told me to walk faster and stop being so damn lazy. The day we came home from the hospital with my third he had me in the kitchen cooking for him. Told me to “stop acting like you JUST gave birth”. I guess giving birth 3 days earlier wasn’t recent enough for him. He’s a different person now. With men you have to literally beat it into their head. They have to step it up when you’re there growing THEIR child.