Sometimes it takes awhile for me to face the facts but I just have to come to the realization that my baby's dad will never be the kind of guy that will get up in the middle of the night to get me ice cream or rub my feet when they're sore or go out of his way to get me a frappe from McDonalds when im craving it...or even wake up in the morning and make me breakfast unless I'm crying and begging him to.. its sad but I'm happy for all you ladies out there who have a man like that... This is the idiot i chose 🤦🤦🤦🤦
O he will have a shock really soon because im getting tired of his shit. Its like having another kid in the house. Cook this, rub my back etc. He got me Fu*#ed up. Wait until this baby comes, no more nice girl. Im being easy cuz i dont wanna stress but rn but just wait on it ⏳⏳⏳... Thanks for your understanding 😘
@lee_lee_26, yeah hun you’re definitely not alone here. Man I told my husband straight up if we’re gonna have a 4th baby IM LAYING MY ASS DOWN FOR A MONTH until I recover! He didn’t argue with me and he apologized for the way he acted before. Girl you’re right husbands are just another kid to look after 🙄
Dont feel bad i am right with u on that ...smh
Just because you chose him it doesn’t mean you have to keep him.
Yes i know hun. Easier said than done tho lol. Thanks tho 😘
@lee_lee_26, it definitely is easier said then done. I’ve done it and am way happier now. Only regret is not doing it sooner.
At all smh... We're selfless and their selfish. So annoying 🙄🙄
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Woke up outta my sleep in crazy pain and to my 4 year old all under me and to my husband saying is Loyal here yet I'm getting nervous cause that man have always been head on to when his kids coming out an playing the game and guess what that's what's going on now I'm ready for baby boy but then again I am not. My 4 year old is literally walking every where I walk talking about I'ma stay with you mama even when I go to the br I'm starting to feel sick to my stomach......
I am FREAKING out. I told my therapist I smoke marijuana to help with morning sickness, and she reported me to her supervisor. They referred me to their drug clinic on the 11th, and I'm so nervous because when they drug test me and if it's positive, I already have an ACS case and they will report me to my worker. My friend suggested Niacin, 500mg twice a day for two weeks, but I'm nervous if it's safe for the baby. I'm going to drink a gallon of water a day and try to ingest vinegar....ladies I'...
IUI Monday!!
So today I went in for my routine bloodwork and ultrasound, and found out that I have three follicles at 17mm! Plus another two at 15mm. When leaving the clinic my FS said to take another dose of gonal-f and come back tomorrow to check to see how big they got and that we would do the iui on Wednesday. Well, after getting home, taking my gonal-f and going out to shovel snow (lol) I get a call saying that I am SURGING!!! I haven't ovulated on my own, or even come close to it in years...
Mine really didn’t change until after we had our third kid. After my second was born we had to go back to the hospital to have her blood checked. I was 5 days postpartum and was limping in pain because I had lifted my son the day before. My husband told me to walk faster and stop being so damn lazy. The day we came home from the hospital with my third he had me in the kitchen cooking for him. Told me to “stop acting like you JUST gave birth”. I guess giving birth 3 days earlier wasn’t recent enough for him. He’s a different person now. With men you have to literally beat it into their head. They have to step it up when you’re there growing THEIR child.