QUICK RANT: My friend doesnt understand that the father of her children doesnt want to coparent as in hang out with the girls and her he today screamed at her talked to her like shes dumb and ignored her because he was more on his phone texting then his kiddos she says he is a good dad I dont doubt it but i see he prefer doing co parent alone and just picking up the girls but she says that he gets mad when she doesn't want to hang out i told her he gets mad because he stays over and he knows if he triggers her he can have sex with her so when she takes that Opportunity away he gets mad as well that he gets mad when me and her hang out and I told her of course because he seen that when she is doing her own thing and having fun with the girls and friends like we do she doesnt do what he says and he doesnt control her in ever decision in her. Life including the girls ...shes my bestfriend but she doesnt want to admit to herself that shes just a pond to his game and he doesnt love her she keeps thinking he still does cause he says so but I tell her that I notice it just to get control of her and into her pants I love my friend but I'm tired of her asking for advice and not taking at less a little bit of it yet she talks bad about my fiancee and expects me to leave him😐 yet I can't tell her the truth if what I see without her getting all defensive
I've tried yet she constantly expects a response as well as she continues to talk badly about my fiancee which gets me mad and I tell her to stop and she doesnt listen
@mommyofanamarie maybe blunt with her. Tell her that if she's going to be in that relationship with her ex and not listen to your advice then you don't want to hear it. And if she's going to keep talking about your relationship then your friendship will cease to exist. She sounds like she's just deflecting since she's in such a shitty situation.
@massgirl I give up I told her I gave up she thinks everything is simple including fighting for custody when she has alot to lose
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page

Ok so there's this girl that won't leave my man alone... She's a crazy ex and I want to know what I should do.... It's like she does thing purposely to taunt me and I can't beat her ass bcuz I'm pregnant... No matter what he does our says to her she won't stop.... This is her...I swear y'all it's taking everything in me not to get her beat tf up!!?
That situation sounds a mess. Honestly I would just wash my hands of it. If she wants to let him walk all over her than so be it.