Who wants to be nosey and discuss my relationship problems with me? I’m so undecided about everything.. like how long should I be comfortable saying ily without him being ready to say it back
My husband and will be together for 11yeArs in September. We got married 7 years after dating. And we said ILY on our wedding night. That was probably the 4/5? Time saying it.
@kedrababy, we both are about actions. I can tell he loves me by the way he treats me. Even when we are bickering and fighting. He is not disrespectful. Never called me out of my name. In all my past relationships that word was way over used. And every man who told me they loved me was either beating on me, lying to me or cheating on me. When my husband and I tell each other we love each other, it holds an tremendous amount of meaning bc we just don’t throw that word out.
@kedrababy I get not rushing things but at the same time family is important.. And he's met your daughter at some point you'll have to meet his kids their going to want to know who their dad's with.
@kedrababy Maybe take it slow on them meeting then, Maybe you can mention him to them at least? So you feel a little better and tell them you're just waiting to see where things go before bringing him around, Maybe by then he'll be in a better situation.