Am I wrong for not wanting my mother in the room while I’m in labor .. I really Juss want me and my man one on one and…
Am I wrong for not wanting my mother in the room while I’m in labor .. I really Juss want me and my man one on one and she keeps making me feel bad about it and kind of forcing the fact after I told her I just want me and my husband .. not to mention me and her don’t have THE BEST relationship, we’re good but we have our days and not to mention she already went and told my whole family I’m being induced because of my gestational diabetes when I wanted that to be private smh .. also since I feel kind of forced to have her there because I’m praying for my VBAC and I don’t want to bring bad karma and hurt her feelings 😌
Jasmine 🐝·
Мама троих детей
No, you’re not wrong! In that moment, it’s about you and baby. Your husband will be there, and that’s a very intimate moment for you and him to share! Gotta do what makes you happy and comfortable.
Where’s Waldo·
Tell her no. Be firm. It’s your labor and delivery. Not hers. Stand your ground.
Kimberly ·
YOUR baby, YOUR decision. If you’re uncomfortable with her being in the room, labor is going to suck. This is your time. Only have the person or people who matter most to you for this. Don’t feel bad for excluding anyone.
Chyna·
В ожидании первенца
I don’t understand why people don’t understand you just want peace and privacy . Like you shouldn’t have to explain these type of things about you and your baby ! At the time you need less stress and interactions as possible
Amy O.·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Not wrong. Just say “I love you, but I just want my husband/partner in the room with me. You can come visit ——(fill in the blank)” I couldn’t imagine having anyone besides my husband with me. It’s fine if someone wants their mom but totally fine if you don’t.
Amber McCowin ·
Absolutely not in the wrong. That’s a special moment between you and the man who helped create this little one and the fact that you’re questioning this on this app means you should go with your gut on this and don’t let her in. She can always wait in the waiting room and then be in your room immediately after if that’s what you want but I’d say just you and the daddy on this one
Ana Perez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
If she wasn’t there when the baby was conceived then she doesn’t have the right to be there when baby is born c: I had my mom there when my son was born and it was pretty cool having her there but we do have a great relationship. Now with my girls it was just my husband and I (my brother was there with my third just to take pictures) and imo it’s better that way. The less people in the room the better.
Buneeh ·
She may bring that bad karma if you let her come. Sounds like she can rile you up a bit.