So me and my child’s father have been separated a year in June/July. Me and my new bf have been together going on 5 months. So what I’m wondering is if anyone has the same situation how long before you and your new relationship started saying you loved each other? When I told my mom how we haven’t she was shocked but idk. Me and him clearly care about each other and he would do anything for me if I ask I stay the night over there w my son once a week but idk if I’d go as far as saying I love him. I mean I do but at the same time whenever we do decide to start saying it I want to know that when I’m saying it it feels right
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I love you is just words. Actions speaks volumes on words. All men before my husband and except family, that ever told me they loved me was either cheating on me or beating on me.
People think this is weird but idc.
My husband and I will be together for 11 years in September. Before he went to training last September, we’ve told each other we loved each other maybe 10 times total. 10 times in 10 years. While he was at training we told each other everyday. We both know how we feel for each other is the truest form of love. Our actions towards each other speaks it for us. The way we speak of each other shows it also. We were together maybe 4-5? Years before we even spoke said those words. On our wedding day was like the 5th time saying it.
@lakota-winyan, that’s sweet. We all the time tell each other how lucky we are to have each other and he tells all the time “I’m not going anywhere you’re stuck w me” and I’ll tell that that’s fine by me because he’s the best and blah blah. But even with all that neither one of us have slipped the “I love you”
@cameronsmommy17, he’s probably scared and nervous too. Lol one of y’all will break the ice. Lol he’s probably waiting for you. Lol
@lakota-winyan, I think that all the time. Lol I’m all the time like “he’s probably waiting for me” but little does he know I’m waiting for him haha
If it doesn’t feel right to say yet you’re probably not in love yet. When you’ll eventually say it and mean it then it’s gonna be true.