Me and my partner were planning our 2nd baby last night as we don’t want to leave a big age gap. We are hoping to try sometime next year. I would love another baby but after my daughter was born, I suffered with a bit of postnatal depression, anxiety and depression. I’m slowly getting my body back and my mental health is slowly getting there. The thought of going through it all again and getting more stretch marks upsets me. It sounds so selfish but I hated myself after my baby was born. I felt ugly and had Suicide Thoughts. Anyone got any advice or been through it themselves ? Xx
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I had the same. Now my daughter is 5 years old and i’m pregnant. It was hard time for me, first year especially. But i know if not now, later I will not make this step. When I still have an energy, I want one more baby. If you are not ready, better to not plan a baby. But if you want it, do it. You will be fine) You look amazing)
It's my turn ladies!
Finally, after nearly FORTY-TWO weeks... I decided to get induced. Baby Violet scared me with some decreased fetal movement and I couldn't wait any longer.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
After Saturday's post i discovered that apparently depression is a pregnancy symptom for me!
labor partners
Who will be there to help you get through your labor? I'm29 weeks and am realizing I dont have anyone to be there for me. Really, I dont have anyone now to get me through my pregnancy. I've been doing it all on my own but once it's Showtime, I won't be able to do it on my own. It's a little depressing and gets me emotional but I need to snap out of it and find someone soon!!!
I really thought I was getting a baby shower and like no one has even thought about giving me one. This is my first baby i mean no one has to do anything for me I just at least thought they had plans for me and they don’t. They gave my uncle one because his wife didn’t want one because she already had a kid.And everyone got a baby shower and was giving one .But I guess it’s okay. I’ll do my own baby shower with my next child I just thought family planned a baby shower for you . Lol guess I thoug...
I was exactly the same after my first I had really bad PPD and I was terrified of getting it when I found out I was pregnant with my second I did end up getting PPD again but went straight to the doctor when she was 3months old wo I didn't end up getting it as bad as my first because I kept putting it off to beig something else. Just talk to your partner about how your feeling through the pregnancy when you conceive of course and talk to him after you've had the baby and any changes go straight to the doctor for help. Xx