ATTENTION: SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE
ATTENTION: SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE
Anyone ever took their young child to see a therapist/counselor at 2.5 years old. Since my recent domestic violence situation with her father which has caused ALOT to change, location, no visits with her dad or his family, not being where she normally is; she’s been very uneasy & angry. & I feel so bad because idk what to do. I know she’s sad she doesn’t see her dad anymore but it’s what’s best right now. She’s use to being around everyone & now it’s just us. Luckily my boyfriend has stepped up to fill in the void, anything she needs or want he has it for her & she’s slowly allowing him too but I don’t want to confuse her either. I was shocked last night she was so happy to see my boyfriend she was clapping and dancing like crazy & smiling which made me smile but I still don’t want her confused just in case the courts decided to let him get supervised visits for now which hasn’t started yet
Jaime·
Мама четверых детей
(Hopefully I don’t get attacked for saying this cause it’s my opinion) but if her actual father is really bad for her and for you then I don’t see a problem with children picking their own father ya know? Like my child’s father signed away all of his rights as a father before he was born and don’t get me wrong I will tell my son that my BF isn’t his real father but he acts more like one than his real father ever did ya know? It’s a right not a privilege
S ♥️··
I definitely understand what you mean, I was raised by my step dad my whole life. I just want to make sure mentally she’s okay because she’s so young
Jaime··
Мама четверых детей
@gianasmom, my parents got a divorce and had domestic issues when I was older and in my opinion it did more damage to us kids cause we were old enough to understand everything that was going on and they always put us in the middle and told us everything the other person did now my BFs parents got a divorce young and he said he preferred that over growing up with his abusive father
S ♥️··
I definitely agree, now I don’t feel so bad. I’m doing the right thing.
Jaime··
Мама четверых детей
@gianasmom, pray on it too girl I’m personally a HUGE believer in prayer and sometimes when it’s too much to handle I literally say “God I cannot handle this I’m giving it to you” and things always fall into place I’ll be praying for you and your family I know it’s gotta be tough
S ♥️··
I definitely need to pray more honestly, I slacked off so much but by you saying this, it’s a sign that it’s time I start again. Thank you so much
Jaime··
Мама четверых детей
@gianasmom, you’re welcome I have been slacking off too super bad up until recently I did bible study every single day while I was pregnant but the second Joey was born I stopped praying it’s like my son became my main focus but now I’m getting back into it because God comes first always as much as I love my son I want to teach him that too but not jam it down his throat either