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Katherine·Мама дочки (7 лет)

I just want to know if I’m wrong

If your married are you as a wife and your a stay at home mom are you entitled to to your husband money or not?

22.02.2019
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morganmommy79
Marilu·Мама троих детей

YES!! You’re most likely a SAHM because he decided to work and you decided to take care of the child. He’s your husband, your provider, not your roommate. When you marry you basically become one so you do whatever works for the two of you but if he’s withholding $$$ from you it’s financial abuse.

I feel entitled is an appropriate word because you’re married. Some people look at it differently and that’s ok but if you agreed to stay home and he wanted that, too, you’re def entitled. He should not withhold $ from you.

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insecureemu
Raven·Мама троих детей

Depends on the man you're with and your agreement with him. I'm engaged, been with my man for 5 years, stay at home mom for 2 now. I don't feel "entitled" to his money in the way that I just take his money like it's my own and use it as I want. I ask him before I make purchases for myself. To me that's just the polite thing to do since I didn't make the money myself.

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laylah_paisley
Caitlin Lyttle·Мама двоих (5 лет, 7 лет)

I’m engaged to be married and I’m a stay at home mom, and my fiancé says his money is my money. So yes!

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cjohnston
Cheyenne·Мама двоих (6 лет, 7 лет)

To buy necessities for you and baby and pay bills yea... but to pamper yourself. No, not unless youve both decided on it.

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addysmama81715
Brittany F·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет)

I don’t think entitled is the right word here. If you’re looking to take it to go shopping and get your nails done, I’d say no. If you mean for your house and child’s necessities then I’d say yes. You guys should be a team.

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hakunamatata09
Hakuna·Мама двоих (4 года, 8 лет)

When I think about marriage I think of unity, 2 people brought together to create a "home". What mine is his and what's his is mine. So my opinion is that yes, you are "entitled"(I hate that word) to your husbands money.

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keeks89
Hot Mess Mama 🥴·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

Once your married there’s no more yours and mine, It’s ours. Every penny we make is for the home n the kids

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sherrynygirl

Money bought into the home is for the children& home 1st ! I make more money than my man and i will tell Every one I know have your own bank Acct as a woman ! He works ,I work also if one needs extra at moment we help each other.....

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kimberly_preemie-mom
Kimberly ·Мама четверых детей

For me, if my husband dies then yes I’m entitled to his money. Otherwise, we have our own money. Separate accounts for what we want, and then a joint account for bills and household things. He earns his money. I earn my money. We work as a team to provide for the family though.

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thecoolz
Jaz·Мама сына (6 лет)

I would say no. Not unless you both agreed to it. I know of couples who dont share a bank account. It isnt out of distrust of the other person but more of a personal choice. Some couples dont want to complicate their marriage with financials. Each person agrees to their share of bills and stick to it, also they dont have kids XD

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mrsmord
Lori 🍕·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

Y’all are married , your basically two halves of one - yes id like to think you have the right to “ his” money.

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raisinglittlegamers
Uhhhh·Мама троих детей

If you're a sahm yes but if not then I don't think so 🤔

Unless he isn't buying anything for kids or behind in bills and such

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squishymommy1
squishymommy1·Многодетная мама (6 детей)

I don’t really like the word “entitled”. We are a team. Our money is our money.

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zme
cherise·Мама троих детей

Uh yeah!

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