In need of advice.. After almost 3 years Aubree’s grandpa wants to meet her for the first time. Her father hasn’t even met her. Idk what I should do cuz they aren’t good people but I want her know her father. What do I do?
IF WHEN I HAVE MY BABY I DONT WANT MY BD OR HIS FAMILY TO EVER C HER WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO???
My baby father has some things on his mind. 🤷🏾 ♀ 🤷🏾 ♀ 🤷🏾 ♀ Any suggestions on what I should do?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Tiana·
Мама троих детей
I think that you should take her to meet him and see how things go see how he interacts with her and how she responds to him. Maybe go out to lunch the first time if you aren’t comfortable with them knowing where you live or you don’t want to be at their house. As long as he isn’t high around her and has taken the steps he needs to get and stay clean I don’t really see the issue.
Katerina Brown·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You and grandma need to establish a relationship before she gets to meet your daughter. If she isn't ok with you than she shouldn't be in your child's life. We are going through something similar. My husband's father hasn't spoken to us in nearly 5 years but found out we now have a son. We had our daughter first and shes nearly 3 but he wants back in with us because we had a boy. Neither of us are ok with that and we've let him know he has to fix things with us and convince both of us that he isn't just in it for our son before he can ever meet the kids. Best wishes hope you can resolve the issues at hand with clarity and certainty.
Kaitlyn Clayton ··
Мама дочки (2 года)
Thank you. I appreciate it
Kaitlyn Clayton ·
Мама дочки (2 года)
They aren’t mean or anything. When I say not good people I mean they use to use drugs
Lanie Jay·
Мама троих детей
Why would you introduce your child to someone who isn't a good person?