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Kaitlyn Clayton
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Kaitlyn Clayton ·Мама дочки (9 лет)

In need of advice.. After almost 3 years Aubree’s grandpa wants to meet her for the first time. Her father hasn’t even met her. Idk what I should do cuz they aren’t good people but I want her know her father. What do I do?

19.02.2019

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tinannas
Tiana·Мама троих детей

I think that you should take her to meet him and see how things go see how he interacts with her and how she responds to him. Maybe go out to lunch the first time if you aren’t comfortable with them knowing where you live or you don’t want to be at their house. As long as he isn’t high around her and has taken the steps he needs to get and stay clean I don’t really see the issue.

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batmom16
Katerina Brown·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет)

You and grandma need to establish a relationship before she gets to meet your daughter. If she isn't ok with you than she shouldn't be in your child's life. We are going through something similar. My husband's father hasn't spoken to us in nearly 5 years but found out we now have a son. We had our daughter first and shes nearly 3 but he wants back in with us because we had a boy. Neither of us are ok with that and we've let him know he has to fix things with us and convince both of us that he isn't just in it for our son before he can ever meet the kids. Best wishes hope you can resolve the issues at hand with clarity and certainty.

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nycolekatie
Kaitlyn Clayton ·Мама дочки (9 лет)

Thank you. I appreciate it

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nycolekatie
Kaitlyn Clayton ·Мама дочки (9 лет)

They aren’t mean or anything. When I say not good people I mean they use to use drugs

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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

Why would you introduce your child to someone who isn't a good person?

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