Not baby related but need to vent sorry. So a friend of mine who moved to to stoke a yr n half ago to be with a guy she met 3 weeks b4 this involved moving her 2 children too. Anyway they recently split up the relationship was doomed from day 1 hes got serious trust issues and would constantly accuse her if cheating from day 1 anyway she's staying up there
Anyway last month i lent her money while she waits for her benefits last week she had a advance on her money (over £1000) and she paid me back and now shes just msgd me sayin "that money i paid u back can i have back as im skint" now she knows I only work part time and im currently saving for my baby and i have no work this week and seriously who asks for money they've paid back to someone after they lent it to u not to mention that she had over a grand last week which shes obviously wasted she didnt even have to use it on rent. Needless to say ive said i can't give it her back i genuinely cant afford to.

Sorry for the vent ladies