We’ll definitely don’t make him your husband. A partner is there to hold shit down when it gets tough! The fact that he threatens you with custody infuriates me. Your strong and worthy of happiness! Please know you can get through this. My inbox is open if you need an ear. 💓

Awe honey don't feel like that. You will find a job just because your having a hard time now doesn't make you a bad mom. Im sure you take great care of your daughter and that's what she needs.

You are more than capable of taking care of your daughter. You've already proven that by caring for her inside of your womb, carrying her for 9 months and delivering her into this world. Nobody....NOBODY, can and should be able to take that away from you. If it weren't for your hard work, she wouldn't be here, but she is. She was depending on you to thrive inside of your womb. She needed you then, she needs you now and she'll need you as she gets older. Honestly, a Male that can easily put a woman down instead of lifting her up is no man at all. What does that say about the kind of father figure he'll be to your daughter? If nothing else do it for yourself. Fight to make a better life for you and your daughter and prove all the naysayers wrong. You deserve better. You need to believe that for yourself so that your daughter can see and learn that for herself. I'm sure you wouldn't want your daughter coming to you saying that her bf is making her feel worthless. She's not. YOU'RE NOT HORRIBLE. It may be hard at first, but I'm sure there are programs around to help you out. You shouldn't have to depend on a guy who isn't your husband and who isn't going to support you mentally. Self love starts from within. Nobody should be able to make you feel worthless. If you feel that way, confront what's making you feel that way and fix it. As long as we're breathing, we have a chance to live a better life. Ask God to guide you and be ready to listen. We can't build something better if we don't know better. Be better for you and your daughter. You deserve that beautiful child, because she was already given to you. Don't let fear cripple you, use it to propel you into a better future. You got this mama! Tell yourself who you want to be, don't let anyone tell you what you should be. Don't ever be sorry for how you're feeling, but don't allow it to foster and grow into something negative inside of you. If you're afraid do what you have to and need to do to ensure that nobody, threat or no threat, can ever take your daughter away. Fight for her...or are you ready to give up?