I was so excited for my husband to get off so I could tell him all about my appointment today since he couldn’t go, and he just doesn’t even act like it cares. Tell him everything that they say and he goes well that’s cool. (Even for the not good things) then tells me that if he starts his new job he’s not going to my first sonogram. I just want to go cry and not be excited anymore
Well I guess they just dont show it or something but he probably is. Have ups had s talk to him about
@santistevanmommie, it’s completely different this time around than it was with our daughter. He was supper involved and excited for everything. I think that’s why I’m so upset
Don’t let him bring you down mama. Sometimes men just don’t bond to a pregnancy the way women do. If my husband didn’t go with me he would say the same thing yours did.
Totally a man thing. We as moms (especially pregnant moms) look at things so incredibly different. In your mind your focused on a new baby, but by his comment he (as most men do) was probably thinking about providing for another one. We are wired to be the nurturers , men are wired to be the providers..... sometimes they don't "get it" until baby arrives. 🤷♀️ don't take it personal