If you are MARRIED esp WITH KIDS... You should not be living w/ either of y'all parents. MY OPINION. I know there's the…

Yas

Our first month married I had to live with my inlaws (house wasn't quite done) worst month of my life 😂

@ecahanes even a weekend with them is pretty long😂😂

I agree or even if u have a kid of age u shouldn't live w your parents!

If yur having children you should have a place of yur own... Its that simple. I agree

Living with people as a couple with kids in general is a huge no. People eventually get annoyed and want your ass gone. My moms clean is different from what I think is clean so that wouldn’t work and my in-laws nosey ass hell. 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t know how some people do it.

Totally Agree🙌 I have too many kids to live with my parents lmao They'd lose their mind and so will I. And I wouldn't ever dare with my in laws either. I read the other day on here a post we are tired of living on my parents living room floor. I had to double 👀like Oh hell no dude would've been to the curb once that option was available. Not I! I just couldn't. I'm not perfect but my pride won't let it go down like that and ain't no love in the world&we at my parents house together with my kids lmao. Its just best when you have your own.

I also could not live with family. I love my parents but we had to live in their basement about 2 years after we were married (only for 4 months while we built a house) and it was so hard! We had the entire basement to ourselves which was big and we had our own kitchen, family room and 2 bedrooms. And only a 1 year old. But by the end of that 4 months we were in a rush to move out! So grateful they let us stay, but we were happy to leave. :)

Girl i couldn’t agree with you more I understand things happen but there is no way I would be doing that and I definitely wouldn’t be bringing kids into it it’s like you have to live under there rules and not your own wake up when they say wake up awe nahhh I couldn’t do it I had a friend that stayed with their in laws because the hubby lost his job and she said it was the worst that it pushed her husband to find a job within a week and been on the same job since they were making them wake up at the crack of dawn to go look for a job and then the simple fact of having to share a kitchen a PGE bill there no way I’m sorry once I got a taste of freedom and having my own I wouldn’t dare go back to living under someone else that’s cooking my man dinner and cleaning up when it should be me girl my mama didn’t raise no fool😂

Well my boyfriend and I and my daughter just moved in with my parents 🤷🏽‍♀️ it's a 6 bedroom, 4 bathroom house and we have the whole downstairs (3 rooms - 1 being a second master, 2 bathrooms) to ourselves.

My niece who they raise is graduating and going off to college this year.

My parents just built a 3 bedroom house 2 doors down so... I'm going to wait it out and probably just assume the house when they move 😂🤣💁🏽‍♀️ idc idc.

I totally agree. My husband wasnt even having that even when we were just dating. He felt like as a man he has got to get us our own shit. I lived w my mom and he lived w his mom and we moved out at 21. We been independent for years. My older sister & her husband lived w us and my mom a few times and me and my husband used to be like whaaa? Lol and they got married wayyyy before us. We both said when we 1st moved out we are NEVER going back home.

Multigenerational homes have always been a common thing? Especially in other countries, but it wasn't until the 50s and the whole 'nuclear family' ideal that it started being viewed as something weird. Lots of people like, like their families, and want to be close to them? As long as everyone is contributing, respecting boundaries, and happy with the set up, what's the issue? If your options are a nice house with people you love, or a tiny apartment alone, you would really choose to be alone?

I agree! My moms bfs daughter has been living with them, and her 3 kids and her bf. My poor mom can't even get a break and they always leave the kids with my mom like she's there damn personal babysitter.