My SO has a decent job (better than mine) but has it set up to where he can miss up to 4 days per week for ‘medical’ reasons. Recently he has been working 1 day a week. He still gets a regular check. Is it wrong of me to be mad about that? I’m almost 6 months and working 5 days a week with 3 of the days being doubles.
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I am jealous! I’m almost 6 months pregnant and im working more than him! We live separately with our moms and he gets mad when I don’t want to hang because I’m too tired or frustrated from working while he gets to sit and game all day. I’ve told him this and he just laughs. It really bugs me he’s definitely milking it and sees nothing wrong with that
@taylor.bush29 You should express this to him. Tell him how it makes you feel.
@divinely_favored, I have told him I’m jealous and if I took it further and told him it really bugs me he would just get annoyed and mad
If he really wasn’t feeling well then I wouldn’t be mad... but I would expect him to do a lot more around the house for me. It he’s just being lazy then I’d probably just lose respect for him as a person bc I value hard work as a characteristic in a partner.
As a toddler he got into an accident and had a kidney and his spleen removed so idk what effects that has but sometimes he gets back pain and is nauseous. That’s all. (Funny that that’s what happens when pregnant and most of us still work, sometimes even on our feet) so he takes full advantage and just doesn’t go to work whenever he doesn’t want to, which is everyday like any working adult.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Why does it upset you? Are you jealous? Do you feel he's lazy? Like he's not pulling his weight?
I think he's wrong to milk it if he's not really ill but you need to figure out why it bothers you and then talk to him.